Hellooooo lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another day and another blog post by your one and only Goddess,
For todayyy I have a very special blog post in mind for you guys: I will be sharing the very basic how-to sext with total strangers that you may find on Instagram, Seeking Arrangements - or on any else social medium out there. So stick around, enjoy the read - and if you do so, remember to drop some lovely Goddess Coffees for yours truly along the way! :)
From writing love letters to erotic instant messaging, the entire process of courtship has transitioned quickly from what it used to be.
Despite both being a way to show affection, the use of smartphones has made the courtship process become incredibly complicated and with much higher risk-especially with dangerous malware and spyware crawling the web.
However, sexting-which is the act of sending erotic electronic messages back and forth with a partner-has become increasingly popular among smartphone owners.
In 2012, sexting was a blazing trend among young adults with the number of 18-to-24-year-olds receiving sexts climbing from 26% to 44%. This growth can be attributed to the convenience and excitement sexting brings, especially since there are various apps for sexting that allows users to explore their fantasies with just the touch of a button.
Nonetheless, sexting a stranger comes with its own ills as you could fall victim to hackers and dangerous loners. However, here are seven tips to not only spice up your sext life but keep you safe. Goddess approved! :))))
1. Ensure That Both Of You Are Comfortable
Sending unsolicited and unwanted sexual messages to another party can be considered as sexual harassment. So, before sending explicit messages, it is important to make sure that the other party is willing to participate.
While asking for a signed waiver might seem like the safest option, it isn’t particularly helpful in fostering a healthy. However, it’s important to always seek consent from the other party before going all ballistic with the explicit messages.
2. 18 And Above Please
While still in tandem with the above tip, however, putting into consideration local laws, it is very important to ensure that the other person is above the legal age for such engagements. This could be particularly tricky considering you’ve never physically met the individual you’re sexting.
3. Relax
Once you’ve covered all legal grounds, you can then fully kick off the engagement and get comfortable. Sexting is typically void of physical contact, therefore you could be sipping a glass of champagne in bed without having to worry about your makeup or your blood red cheeks blushing uncontrollably.
The use of technology creates a divide that separates both partners ensuring that things such as shyness and unattractive physical qualities don’t affect the quality of the chat.
4. Both On The Same Page
The use of acronyms while chatting is almost inevitable. However, it is highly recommended only to use them sparingly and the most common types.
This is because acronyms are only useful in conversations if both parties understand their meaning; otherwise, it often leads to confusion, irritation and can be a complete turn-off.
You might know that IAGTBOIAD4U means ‘I am going to beat off inside a diaper for you,’ but if it takes three supplementary texts to explain what it means and why that’s a good thing, you may lose a bit of momentum.
So, I’d suggest you only use the basic acronyms, like the ones listed below. ASL: Age/Sex/Location (useful in chatrooms when sexting with strangers), WAYW: What are you wearing? UNF: Universal Noise for Fucking, INC: I’m not crying, DLAM: Don’t Look At Me, FAP: Fap. :))))
5. Dont Force It
The rules of sexting is similar to that of dirty talking, in that while it is particularly tempting to want to heighten the sexual tension, it equally becomes very easy to cross the line and begin saying, weird, immature, sensitive and highly uncomfortable things which are bound to kill the mood or in worse cases lengthen prison sentences.
Therefore, let things progress naturally and never try to force it.
6. Protect Your Identity
While you might feel considerably safe with whosoever your sexting as time goes by, but sometimes people disappoint, and all it takes is one person to share your intimate photos and conversations with the world.
Therefore, it is very important to always protect your identity and never share photos. However, if you absolutely must, never share a photograph with your face in it. Additionally, other identifiable features such as tattoos, birthmarks, and scars should be excluded.
7. Delete The Evidence
It is important to clear all trace of sexting activities once you’re done as you never know who may be snooping around your phone, or who can accidentally stumble on your raunchy conversation or nude photograph.
It’s best to delete photos just in case you have a habit of losing or leaving your phone lying around-especially without a passcode.
Additionally, it’s equally important to note that sexting at work is incredibly risky-and sexting using your work phone is even riskier and should never be attempted.
This is because your employer may be tracking your phone alongside any device connected to their Wi-Fi network and unless you’re comfortable having an awkward conversation with your boss, you should totally avoid it.
There you have it boys and girls - now go out there and start sexting!
That is ittt for today’s post, I wish you all a wonderful day ahead and catch you all tomorrow with a brand new post!
Goddess loves you all,
xxxxxx