How to make rough sex happen

Goooooooooooood morning lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to a new blog post courtesy of yours truly - and boy oh boy, do I have a treat in store for you lovely readers today!

I will be sharing my thoughts about what you guys and gals need to do in order to have the best rough sex ever!

Rough sex is an absolute must - I am a particular fan of having it rough - so join me as I express my thoughts onto this deliciously delicate topic today! :))

The intimacy that the bond created by rough sex creates between a Daddy and a Sugar Baby, a Dom and a sub or simply between two partners can be more than just a sexual connection. It can also be a deep feeling that enables both partners to tap into aspects of themselves they feel a serious, meaningful connection to.

Here are my thoughts on how you can all make rough sex happen, asap:

1. Ask For It

If your partner brings the idea of rough sex up first, then you can pretty much skip this step.

But if they don't, there are a few different ways you can bring it up. Rule No. 1 is not to spring it on them in the middle of sex.

Instead, consider bringing it up next time the two of you talk about sex, or watch a suggestive film with some hot rough sex scenes in it, then ask your partner how they feel about the idea. Let them know it turned you on, and see how they react.

If your partner seems interested, talk about what you’d like to try and ask them about what they’d like, too. Whatever you do, don’t pressure them. Enthusiastic, informed consent is all-important here. If they’re not into it, you'll have to accept that.

2. Safe Word

If your partner is into it, you'll want to agree on a safe word before engaging in any rough sex.

A safe word is a word, which when spoken, means "stop everything." It’s your mutually agreed-upon quick exit, and it's necessary so you can engage in sex where the normal signs that you should stop don't necessarily mean stop. Without a safe word, rough sex could be rape.

Talk about it beforehand, agree on a safe word — and possibly a safe gesture as well, so they can communicate non-verbally — and stop as soon as they use it.

3. Loosen Up

If you’re not yet comfortable being rough with a partner, it can be useful to do what you need to get comfortable beforehand and loosen up a bit.

Whether it’s a drink, releasing endorphins through some light exercise or something else, whatever you normally use to offset nerves and relax your inhibitions can help you feel more uninhibited during the act and free to try things you haven't in the past without being hampered by performance anxiety.

4. Sugar Daddies, Get Dominant

Daddies, exercising your dominance is the basis for rough sex. Taking forcefulness to the limit is exciting for many people, and getting into the headspace where you feel comfortable taking what you want and pushing through hesitations can help produce a really exciting dynamic for the two of you.

If you’re having trouble feeling dominant and in control, however, you should talk to your partner about it. You might think that admitting anxiety about this goes against the concept of being dominant, but if you can talk openly and honestly about your concerns beforehand, that can help you feel clear and comfortable later when trying things out. But trust the Goddess on this one - the harder the thrusts inside me, the more the fun and pleasure for both of us! :)

5. Leave A Subtle Mark

Try biting at the nape of her neck (not hard enough to draw blood!). Then work your way down — nibbling and biting as you go. Leaving your mark — whether by nibbling or more — separates rough sex from vanilla sex.

Of course, this can go both ways. You might also want some marks — many men, for instance, love having their partners leave nail marks on their backs, so if that sounds good to you, ask for it.

6. Spank Her, Please

Spanking can be a really hot aspect of rougher sex, whether there’s a specific Dom/sub component to it or your partner just likes the pain. Whether it’s a full over-the-knee spanking with a disciplinary vibe, or spanking mid-coitus while you’re in doggy style.

As with biting, you can also find yourself leaving a handprint on your partner’s skin through hard spanking — and they might love that. The Goddess ADORES spanking!

7. Don’t Forget.. Your Voice

If you’re comfortable with it, it can be fun for both of you for the rougher partner to get demanding. If that’s you, tell your partner what to do. Instruct them. Get loud. Talk dirty.

Your voice can be sexy even without words, however. Don’t hold back from making noise. Whether they’re moans of pleasure or growls of raw intensity, your vocalizations will turn up the mood.

And there you have it boys and girls, that is all that I have for you lovely souls for today!

I hope you enjoyed the read and are ready to get rough, FAST!

Have a great Tuesday ahead of you, peace and love to you all!

xoxoxoox