Tips in order to have some kinky sex!
Hellooooo lovely ladies and gentlemen and welcome to this beautiful Tuesday in the company of your favorite Goddess, it’s been a week since my last blog post - as you guys know, the summer is my favorite period of the year so I am having trouble staying focused and writing due to the many arrangements I have - but today you are in luck as I have created a very nice blog post for your guys’s convenience!
Today I will share with you guys some very kinky tips that can propell your sex drive and you will wanna make sure to implement the tips in your sex life ASAP!
Without any further ado, let’s get right into them!
Kinky sex covers a whole host of sexy things, from BDSM and power play to fetish and role play. It can be confusing to understand exactly what counts as kinky sex, and how you can do it yourself. So if you're looking to get into kink for the first time, or you want more tips on how to do it safely, here is everything you need to know. Remember: It's important to read up as much as you can before you try anything kinky with a partner!
1. What You Should Know?
If you're interested in trying something kinky, you need to make sure your partner is on the same page first. I suggest sitting them down and explaining your fantasy to them first. Don't worry if it's not as great as you expected first time around. Practise makes perfect!
2. For Starters.. Keep Things Simple
I suggest starting with an easy role playing scenario, like pretending you don't know each other and chatting each other up in a bar. Easy! Trust the Goddess on this one, first steps are the most important ones - and the easier they are, the better.
3. Pain And Pleasure
Pain and pleasure really compliment one another. Try ass spanking and then clit stimulation instantly after one another and keep repeating this. If you're new to pain, try building up your pain resistance rather than going all out straight away.
4. Next Up - Bondage
Start with a beginners' bondage kit if you want to experiment with restraint, but make sure you read the instructions to stay safe. Being tied up can feel adventurous, and if added with a blindfold you can play with the senses of sight, hearing, taste, touch and imagination. The brain is the biggest sex organ!
If you're trying any kind of bondage or dominance and submission, it's crucial that you discuss boundaries and establish a safe word or signal before starting.
5. Dress Up
Good costumes to start with can be latex or PVC, or you can try dressing up as a character. It can also be fun to include accessories, like vibrators, cock rings, candle wax and lotions. I love to have a throbbing and vibrating penis inside me all day long! :D
6. Do What Feels Right
While a list of kinky ideas might be useful for some people, it's better to start with what excites you personally. For most people it's not about specific positions or scenarios, but rather playing with different roles or sensations. Every person is different - it goes for both Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies. Communication really is key!
7. Kinky Sex Positions
Last but not least, sex positions for kinky sex depend on the scenario being played out, but I suggest for all of you Sugar Babies out there being bent over a counter, chair, bed, or specialised sex apparatus, especially if you're trying bondage or spanking.
Specifically - try being tied to a chair with legs spread apart and hands tied behind you. Get your Sugar Daddy to add a blindfold so you don’t know what’s going to happen next. Kink play is about using your imagination and letting someone take control, or being in control, with someone you trust.
Positions that help you look into each other's eyes can be great, as this enhances the feeling of being submissive or dominant, and kneeling also has the same effect.
In conclusion - kinky sex is a great way of experimenting and mixing things up in the bedroom. Do you eat the same cuisine every evening? Or do you occasionally treat yourself to take away?
Sex play is the same and should have added spice occasionally - and it's very healthy. Sex is about enjoyment.
Many of us eroticise the tough things that have happened in our lives, so it's very common for people to be turned on by the idea of being controlled, or someone having power over them, or some kind of punishment or humiliation.
The things we enjoy can simply be fun and playful, things that feel nice to our bodies, or things that help us to connect to another person. There can be many reasons why we’re into what we’re into, and it shouldn’t really matter as long as we're acting on it consensually!
And that is it for today's post lovely readers!
I hope you are ready to throw some kink in your sex game, the sooner the better! :))
Goddess loves you all, take care lovely reading souls and catch you all next time!
xoxoxoox
