How to have great virtual sex
Helloooo dear readers of the Goddess blog and welcome to another post of your one and only Goddess and for today I will be dedicating my post to a subject that became increasely popular due to the ongoing COVID pandemic, and that is virtual sex. Virtual sex can be great and awesome - of course nothing beats the real deal, but virtual sex can prove to be quite satisfactory as well, so keep on reading in order to see what the Goddess has to say about this matter. Last but not least before we get right into it, remember to let this Goddess have some sips of coffee if you enjoy the content guys! :))
So you've met someone online and you're ready to get intimate, or perhaps you're lovers in real life who can't be together right now. How do you take it to the next level, what if you're shy about revealing yourself online, and should you be worried about privacy concerns? If the concept of webcam sex scares the bejesus out of you but you seriously need to get your rocks off, you have come to the right place.
Once you've established a few ground rules, now is the time to start enjoying yourself and get stuck in. There are a number of ways you can get fruity on and offline to keep the fires burning until you've both been vaccinated, so take your time:
1. Communicate your desires
To get started, led by the above mentioned safety tips, communicate your desires, establish your boundaries and explain what you are prepared to do. If this all sounds a bit serious, make it sexy! Tell your lover exactly what you are keen to do in detail, and you'd be surprised how erotic this can make you feel. If you're shy, ask your lover to tell you what they want to do to you, and gently whisper which ones on their list are going to happen.
2. Issue spontaneous commands
The great thing about virtual sex is it can start anywhere, at anytime, so if you have a date arranged for the weekend you can start the foreplay in advance. That way you'll both be thinking sexual thoughts about each other long before you actually connect online.
Try texting little commands to each other throughout the week. It could be something simple like “wear your sexiest panties and show me tonight” or something naughtier like “take 5 minutes to leave work and play in the bathroom’’.
3. Send a sexy survival package
You can't be together right now but you can connect in other ways, so prepare a sexy survival package and post it to your lover. Include sex toys, sensual candles, aphrodisiac snacks (chocolate travels better by post than oysters) and warming massage oils in your parcel, and ask your lover to open it on camera while you watch. This way you can feel physically connected from afar, and watching your lover experiment with their gifts can engage all the senses and be sexy as hell. Just remember not to tell the truth when they ask what's in your parcel at the post office.
4. Make a sex scrap book
Great sex is often about anticipation of what's to come, so use your smart phone to your advantage and send sexy ideas to your lover throughout the week.
Did you find a hot clip that turns you on? Or stumble across a sex tip you can’t wait to try? Instantly send that link to your partner. It will let them know you’re thinking about staying intimate, even if it’s just a hot pic that got your motors going.
5. Set the scene
If you regularly use Zoom for work or catching up with your nan, your webcam might not have the sexiest connotations for you, so set the scene and transform your office space into a boudoir of lust. Dim the lights, train the webcam on the most aesthetically pleasing part of your home (or your bed), play some sexy music and experiment with camera angles in advance of your date.
6. Arrange a long-distance date night
You first foray into virtual sex doesn't have to be ripping your clothes off and straddling a monster dildo on webcam (unless you really want to!) Start simple and arrange a date night so you can get to know each other or familiarise yourself with chatting on video.
Set a date where you sit down in front of a webcam, have dinner, chat, and watch a movie together. It’s a simple way to connect, and you could even set aside some time to share some fantasies and feel playful.
7. Play erotic games
Zoom calls can be uncomfortable at the best of times. Sidestep awkward conversations about the weather by arranging sexy games to play with your date(s). Whether it be truth or dare, pick a stick, strip poker, or playing with sex dice, your sex life is sure to stay exciting. Games can open up new levels of communication and allow you to express your most erotic fantasies with each other.
8. Sexting is sexy
What is sexting? The clue is in the name. Sending a sexy text to your lover can keep you both anticipating the next moment of pleasure. It’s also a perfect time to share your fantasies, especially if you feel awkward voicing them aloud. You can also open a conversation about any kink you may have and explore desires you fantasise about, but aren’t ready to explore in person.
9. Good old fashioned phone sex
Virtual sex doesn't have to be on video. If you're feeling shy, the sound of your lovers' voice might be enough to turn you on, so pick up the phone and start talking. Tell them how you feel, what you're wearing, and what you wish they could do to you right now. If the mood dictates, make use of the hands free button and touch yourself while listening to your partner's voice.
10. Purchase a long-distance sex toy
We haven't worked out how to have sex with holograms yet, but it's only a matter of time. Until Elon Musk pulls his finger out and invests in holographic stimulation, we'll have to make do with long distance sex toys, which are actually rather brilliant. You simply hand the controls over to your lover, keep the sex toy for yourself and suddenly you are at their mercy, or for singletons some devices even pair you with strangers around the world. The Goddess likes and suggests the Lush wireless wearable vibrator.
That is it for today’s post guys! Hope you guys liked the read and will reward your Goddess with some coffees!
Goddess wishes you a care-free day,
xxxxx
