Great oral sex tips for HER - Part I
Good afternoon lovely readers of the Goddess blog and welcome to Wednesday’s Goddess blog post, for today I will be doing a lady-friendly blog post - nevertheless, I think that a lot of guys will want to read what I have in mind for today. Why you might ask? Well, I will be sharing my secret tips about how to give your man the most awesome and mindblowing blowjob there is! Stick around for this one fellow ladies and gentleman as it is bound to make your heart pounding (penis pounding too?) and as always guys, remember to let this Goddess have some coffees!
Let’s not waste any time and just get right into it. These blowjob tips will blow his mind - Goddess approved!
First step: Stop thinking of it as a job. Done correctly, oral sex can be satisfying for both of you. Without any further ado, here are the Goddess tips..
1. GET YOUR 69 ON
If you’re both having a good time, you’ll both be more inclined to help the other person get off. Everybody wins!
2. USE A VIBRATOR
Yeah, you’ll be a little busy, but that doesn’t mean you can’t pleasure yourself too. Try a hands-free vibrator, Goddess - style!
3. MAKE EYE CONTACT
It sounds intimidating, but the payoff is worth it. Glance up at him just as you're about to take his penis as far into your mouth as you can, then maintain eye contact for a few strokes or the entire time. This move is super intimate, as extended eye contact causes a release of oxytocin, the bonding hormone, in both of you.
4. FIND A COMFORTABLE POSITION
The more at ease you are, the more you’ll be able to focus on the, um, task at hand.
5. TEASE HIM
Foreplay can mean the difference between a standard oral sex experience and the best. time. ever. To up the excitement, start by licking, blowing, stroking, and kissing everything but his penis. Wait until he’s flushed, panting, and practically — or really! — begging for it. It’ll be more than worth the wait. You could also turn foreplay into a game with some Naughty Roll Play Dice. They'll tell you exactly where to touch each other.
6. TAKE CONTROL
When you’re in a healthy relationship, giving oral sex can be one of the most empowering things you do because you’re taking charge of his pleasure. That can amp up your own arousal.
7. TRY FLAVORED LUBE
In addition to making the experience slightly more appealing for you, flavored lube will make any hand action you add in go that much more smoothly.
8. GO SLOW
The slower you take things — especially at the start — the more you’ll make him squirm.
9. CHECK IN
Don’t stress if he doesn’t maintain a full-on erection throughout. It’s totally normal for his erection to ebb and flow, and has nothing to do with how much fun he’s having. But it also doesn’t hurt to ask him to signal when he’s really enjoying himself. Being honest about how it feels will boost enjoyment on both sides.
10. TAKE IT AN INCH AT A TIME
Despite what you may have seen in porn, you shouldn’t feel like you have to immediately jam his entire penis down your throat (or even at all). Gagging takes you both out of the moment, and you and he will enjoy oral sex much more when you're both having fun. You can achieve a similar sensation by gripping the base of his shaft, and moving your hand and mouth in a rhythmic motion. (Flavored lube will make this a lot easier.)
11. BE CLEAR ABOUT YOUR BOUNDARIES
If you’re just not into a particular kind of oral sex (e.g. deep-throating), don’t be afraid to say so. Be mindful of what your body is comfortable doing. And listen to your body as you’re giving. Make it a point to talk through your boundaries before, during, and after sex.
12. USE YOUR LIPS
The so-called “lipstick technique” makes for some exciting sensations for him, and it’s a great way to break things up for yourself. Using your hand, run the head of his penis against the outline of your lips, taking the head in your mouth between outlines for added lubrication.
13. EXPLORE HIS FRENULUM
The frenulum, located on the underside of the penis, contains a bundle of nerves. Flick it with the tip of your tongue, or circle the head of the penis slowly, stopping each time you hit this pleasure spot.
14. FIND A RHYTHM
Licking his penis like you're licking an ice cream cone is a guy-pleaser for a reason: Not only does a regular rhythm help get him even more worked up, but it gives you a chance to get into a groove. Creating a steady rhythm is what builds and sustains excitement.
15. SHOW HIM YOU'RE HAVING FUN
Found your groove? Show him you're into it. Conveying your genuine enthusiasm is the biggest turn-on. The more pleasure you feel, and the more you can get across that you're enjoying the act, the more pleasure your partner will receive in turn.
That is it for today’s part I of the oral sex tips for HER! I hope you had a blast reading it boys and girls! Be sure to come back tomorrow for part II!
Goddess loves you all,
xxxxx
