How to attract any girl
Goooooooood morning lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to this lovely Saturday and the last post for this week! Today is a rather special day for me - as my Thessaloniki endeavours are slowly coming to an end, this will not only be the last post for the week, but also the last post from Thessaloniki as on Monday I will be back in Belgrade, so today I wanted to have something rather special for you guys to read upon - so I decided to share 7 tips in which you guys can attract ANY girl out there!
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Want to know how to attract any girl? It starts by getting the girl interested in you and curious about you. With that foundation, you can gradually build a lasting attraction with any beautiful woman.
As for how to spark that interest and curiosity, I’m here to answer that age-old question and get you on a path to the success with women you want. Without any further ado, here are 7 tips that will make any girl out there interested in you - Goddess approved!
1. Don’t Be Needy
Needy behavior is an instant turn-off because it communicates a lack of self-respect, self-love, and self-confidence. If you want to attract women, you must be able to hold your own and not come across as clingy or dependent.
A high-value man doesn’t need attention and validation from anyone to know his value. He recognizes his own value and makes a conscious effort to appreciate the value in those around him. As a result, he will attract women because he comes across as secure in who he is and how he moves through the world.
And this means he can be trusted to be himself, unlike a needy man who will do and say anything to get the attention he needs to feel good about himself. That will not attract women.
2. Have A Confident Body Language
Out of all the attractive traits to have, confidence is the one irresistible trait if you want to attract women. And most women can tell right away whether or not you’re confident just by looking at your body language (including your facial expressions).
For example, if you’re fidgeting or making yourself look “small” in your environment, women will see you as lacking confidence.
So the first step to attracting women is to adopt confident body language.
Keep your body movements calm and controlled. Make yourself big. Make eye contact. Don’t be afraid to take up room and claim the space immediately around you.
If that’s difficult due to feeling nervous or uncomfortable, take slow, deep breaths while focusing on the sensations in your body (can you feel your feet?). This will help you relax and allow that confident body language to come out naturally.
3. Make Her Laugh
If you want to attract girls, make them laugh.
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Every girl wants a guy who can make her laugh. And there’s no better time to prove you have that ability than at the beginning of the conversation.
Get a girl to smile early on and it’ll help her relax and feel comfortable talking to you. All while sparking that interest and attraction.
One technique you can use to start a conversation and get a girl laughing is playful teasing. This is particularly effective because most guys are too insecure to playfully tease a girl right off the bat.
By starting your conversations this way you show you’re not intimidated by beautiful women. You can get her laughing and show tremendous confidence at the same time, and that instantly attracts women.
4. Make Her Win You Over
Projecting confidence and making a girl laugh are common tips for how to attract any girl. But there’s another tip that’s equally important that doesn’t get nearly as much discussion.
It’s called qualification.
Qualification is all about getting the woman to prove that she’s a cool, interesting girl. It shows you’re a man with standards who doesn’t invest his time and attention in just any beautiful woman.
When you actively filter single women like this they see you as a high-value guy. They will then put more effort into keeping your interest and attention. It’s easier to have success with women when they’re chasing you instead of you chasing them.
5. Find Out If She Is Interesting
In addition to having fun, your other goal is to find out if someone is actually interesting.
Sexual attraction is the spark that gets you curious about talking to someone. But after that, the goal should be to find out if the woman is actually interesting enough to bring into your own life. Is her personality as attractive as her appearance?
As men, it’s easy for you guys to get hung up on physical beauty. But the truth is, a beautiful woman is not necessarily a high-value woman. A high-value woman is someone who is interesting, enjoyable to be around, and adds value to the people in her life.
If you approach meeting people with this simple mindset shift, you will come off as more high value because it makes you selective.
6. Create An Emotional Connection
In order to know how to attract any girl, it’s important to know how to connect with any girl. That is, how to build an emotional connection so she feels close to you, and you feel close to her.
One way to build that emotional connection with a girl is to use the “I” perspective when speaking. Express your thoughts, opinions—and most importantly your emotions—directly.
7. Sexual Spark
No article on how to attract any girl would be complete without a tip on how to build sexual tension and direct sexual desire.
After all, this is what keeps you out of the friend zone.
One of the most effective ways to build sexual tension with women is through physical contact. Start touching early on in your conversation by lightly tapping the back of your hand against her elbow.
If she’s okay with that contact, you can gradually increase physical contact for longer periods of time in more intimate areas (shoulder, back, thigh, face).
8. BONUS TIP - Don’t Think Too Much Of The Outcome
One thing that will help you tremendously when learning how to attract women is being unattached to the outcome.
That is to say, don’t get hung up on whether or not you get a phone number, a date, or even get a girl to like you. Just enjoy the process of meeting women and focus on having fun.
If you’re not looking to get anything from your interactions with women then you’ll have no trouble being confident, fun, open, and sexual with women.
And that is itttttttt for today’s post lovely ladies and gentleman!
I really hope you enjoyed the read and are ready to start attracting girls ASAP!
Goddess is out, enjoy your weekend lovely people and catch you all on Monday!
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