Good morning lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to a new week and a new post from your one and only Goddess!
Yesterday was an off day for me - but never fear as for today I will be sharing my thoughts about how you guys can get your stubborn Sugar Baby/partner/girlfriend to swallow that delicious load of your sperm that you unleash after finishing having sex! Stick around for today’s post, enjoy the read and as always - remember to get some lovely cups of coffee for your Goddess!
There are few things more pleasurable in the bedroom for a guy than watching your girl take your sperm and happily gulp it all with a naughty smile.
Giving her a facial is nice, but there’s nothing more pleasurable than having her soft, wet lips around your shaft, slurping every ounce of your seed. So I have been told by the guys who have experienced the Goddess’s slurping abilities! :D
The problem is that not all of them are willing to do it (especially not with a smile). There are some girls who are into swallowing and love it, but some hate it requires a little bit of work.
So how do you do it? How to get your girlfriend to swallow?
To succeed at this, you need to stop thinking about this as a man and start considering things from her point of view. Yes guys - think like us ladies for once!
Take a second and think about how she feels, and what’s going through her mind while giving you a blowjob.
That means knowing what things not to do and figuring out answers to common objections about swallowing.
WHAT NOT TO DO: Don’t hold her head and try to force it.
This will only strengthen her resolution not to swallow.
Not only that, but she will also resent you for trying to force her to do something she doesn’t want to do. Think about it this way – how would you feel if she grabbed your head and tried to force you to lick her pussy?
And even if she swallows this time, do you think she will do it again?
She might be so pissed off that she will not even give you a blowjob.
This is guy’s first reaction when your girl won’t swallow. Yes, she’ll give you a blowjob, and your penis is already in her mouth, so why not just keep it there?
Even if you force her to do it, she’ll still hate doing it. It might work once, but this will make her less likely to do it in the future.
WHAT CAN WORK.. SOMETIMES: Just cum and don’t give her a warning.
This can be a little like playing Russian roulette.
On the one hand, she might be totally cool with it and just swallow.
On the other hand, she might be so surprised that she spits out your sperm all over you.
This technique isn’t the best for making her swallow, and it’s not good for pleasure, either. When you’re getting a good blowjob, you want to enjoy it!
I don’t know about you, but my partners usually like to moan and let out sounds of joy when they are getting head from the Goddess. Especially when they start to come, it becomes obvious, from the sounds they make and the movement of their penis. The penis starts to get harder and harder, and even start moving, as they get closer to orgasm.
That’s why It’s best to communicate your orgasm to your woman as it comes.
In this day and age, I think most women expect at least a courtesy tap as a signal when you are about to cum.
Cum without a warning at your own risk, especially if you’re going to shoot a big load at her. :D
WHAT IS USUALLY THE WAY TO GO: Order her to swallow.
Let’s be completely clear – this can work. I’ve personally have this done to repeatedly with great results. The problem is that you have to start your relationship in a strong, dominant manner – you can’t be a meek, unassuming boyfriend and then suddenly turn into an alpha male.
She will sense that your behavior is incongruent, and she will not swallow. That is setting a dangerous precedent – now she is less likely to swallow if you ask her again (even if you do it politely). That is why the Goddess has a thing for Alpha males guys! :D
Now that we’ve discussed how to convince her to swallow your cum, we’re going to discuss when to bring it up.
If you want to convince your girl to swallow your cum, you have to talk about it multiple times outside the bedroom, sort of like brainwashing her.
When you begin to talk about her swallowing your cum during the day, she’ll start thinking about it more, and slowly warm up to doing it.
The best way to do this is via text. Start some light sexting. Even if your texts are usually PG, consider adding sexting in.
And if she is still hesitant?
Be patient.
Rome wasn’t built in a day. Keep gently bringing up the topic using the arguments above and eventually, she will swallow your cum. It also helps if you can last longer during a blowjob because you then have more time to persuade her to swallow.
The great thing about this is, that once she’s swallowed your cum (and it tasted good) she is infinitely more likely to swallow again.
So do keep in mind that you’re not going to have to convince her to swallow every single time during your relationship.
Focus on getting her to swallow ONCE, just one time.
The first few times are the hardest, and the rest should be smooth sailing from there.
That is ittt for today’s post guys! I really hope you enjoyed the read!
Goddess is out for the day, talk to you lovely people tomorrow,
xxxxx