Make missionary sex great again
Good morning lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another day and another post by your one and only Goddessssss, today I will be sharing several things that you lovely guys and gals should take note of in order to make missionary great again!
Stick around for today’s post and read it up, it will be worth your while for sure - and as always, be sure to drop in some coffees for your Goddess along the read!
Missionary is a classic for a reason, but the position has got a reputation for being a bit boring. It’s typically thought of as requiring the person on top to do most of the work while the person on the bottom just gets to enjoy themselves. Thankfully, there are plenty of little things to do during missionary to spice up this position and shift some of that effort more equally between partners.
Eye-gazing, skin-on-skin contact, intimacy, and the ability to kiss during intercourse are some of the reasons to love missionary. For us ladies, some really like the pressure of their partner on them; the body-to-body contact may add more clitoral stimulation than they'd get in some other positions, and the skin-to-skin element is arousing, too. Meanwhile, the guys on top have lots of opportunity to move, get into a thrusting groove, and explore the different ways this can be experienced, from slow grind to fast to the finish.
Of course, there are all kinds of places sex can take you. Some people are in it for the orgasm, while others get off on seeing the facial expressions of their partner. If this is your turn-on, missionary is a perfect position for you, and one that doesn't have to be vanilla — that is, if you try the following missionary position tips to make it more exciting.
1. Use Pillows
Placing a pillow (or pillows) under the bottom partner’s butt during missionary sex is a wonderful addition to vaginal penetration. This little ergonomic trick can change up the angle of entry, and that in turn can provide more and different pressure along the course of the vagina and possibly change the depth of insertion, too, depending on how the pillows are positioned.
2. Do It Outside The Bedroom
Sex on the beach isn't just a tropical drink — it's an invitation. Be sure to be discreet, and use a large sheet to keep the sand out of your business. But the beach is just one option. There are way more places to have sex outside than the beach. Whenever engaging in this kind of action, watch out for consent issues among any possible viewers, and remember you can actually just go to another room in your house if this seems too advanced or ‘out there’ for you.
3. Vibrating Rings
Clitoral stimulation is the key to female arousal — as if you didn't know that. What’s the Goddess biggest advice for you ladies? Touch your clit! Much higher arousal and many more orgasms await if you do this simple act.
But many women might feel self-conscious touching themselves during missionary sex. That's nothing a vibrating ring can't solve. There are also rings that don't vibrate but are equipped with a ‘love bump’ that adds some extra clit-focused pressure with each thrust, and many like those too.
4. Wrap Your Legs Around Him
If the bottom partner wraps their legs around the top partner’s back, this can shift the angle of penetration so there is clitoral stimulation with each thrust. The other thing that wrapping your legs around the top partner's back can do is allow for more depth. Some bottom partners will enjoy that also. This little tip can make all the difference in helping you orgasm during missionary.
5. Put Your Legs On His Shoulders
For intense, deep penetration, elevate your legs so they rest on the top partner’s shoulders. The feeling is intense for both of you, so be prepared for it. Being bendy is ideal for this one. If both legs are too much, try lifting just one, or the top partner can often help by letting the bottom partner brace on their upper arms. You can do this position halfway by raising one leg, but also it's worth doing using the top partner's arms, rather than shoulders, to rest your legs on — not quite as acrobatic, but still hot and intense.
6. Rotate Your Hips
One way to guarantee you're not just laying there during missionary is to rotate your hips. Ladies, you can rotate — and especially important, you can thrust. Thrusting back against your partner's thrusts adds to the action, and just the motion of thrusting itself can heighten arousal.
7. Get Rough
One of the best missionary position tips to make it extra hot? Getting rough. Ask to have your hands bound while your partner pumps into you. If bondage isn't your bag, try a little scratch on your partner's back or nibble their ear. Or try other ways of getting rough, like extra-strong thrusting, hair-pulling, and biting. It’s extra important that full consent is involved here.
8. Keep Your Pants On
There's something sexy about keeping one article of clothing on while you're doing the deed. Plus, it might bring back memories of experimenting with sex when you were younger. Oh, and Jay Z sings about sliding Beyoncé's panties "to the side" in "Drunk In Love," so there's always that image to get you fired up during missionary.
9. Slow Down
Switch up missionary and make it more intimate by forgetting about the orgasm for a minute. Yes, you read that right. Try incorporating tantric sex, which includes deep breathing together (think yoga breaths) while you gaze into each other's eyes. This meditative sex practice focuses on connecting the mind and body to unite the energies of each partner. It’s not about the end goal, but slowing down and enjoying the journey. Mindful missionary is a truly sexy time.
10. Grab His Butt!
Grabbing the penetrating partner’s butt to pull them deeper into you will never not be hot. But your partner’s cheeks are just one of many things you can get hold of, as the person on the bottom. The person below can ... hold onto their partner's love handles, hips, caress their partner's inner or outer thighs, as well as testicles. Ladies, while you are below, you can also caress your partner's face, chest, or play with their nipples as they are penetrating.
Missionary does not have to be boring or uncomfortable. Just employ the right adjustments to add some extra spice, and remember that communication with your partner is key. The old classic may just wind up being your new favorite.
That is ittt for today’s post guys! Now go out there and Make Missionary Sex Great Again! :D
Goddess will be back tomorrow with a new post, peace and love y’all,
xxxxx
