10 sexy things to say to her on a first date

Goooooood morning lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another day and another blog post by your favorite Goddess, today I will be sharing with you guys 10 things that ooze with sexy that you can say to your date on your first encounter with her!

Stick around for today’s post, I am sure that you guys will enjoy it - and remember to drop in some lovely coffees along the way for your Goddess!

To make sure everything goes well on your first date with a woman, make sure you tell her sexy things that will charm her. Because hey - if you play your cards right and say the right things, you are guaranteed a second date. So here are the 10 sexiest things to say to a woman on a first date to make her knees buckle. Goddess approved!

1. This Dress Looks Beautiful On You

If you feel chemistry, it is important to let your date know immediately that you are attracted to her. Not only do women want to feel sexually attracted to their date, but they also want their date to be sexually attracted to them. In fact, in this case, women are more likely to feel attracted in return. So compliment her.”

2. Don’t Worry, I Will Call Them Back Later

Using a mobile phone is a major irritant for many daters. Some studies and its researchers found that 75% of singles do not get a second date if they answer their cell phone on the first date. In addition, 66% say they do not like to be interrupted during their date by a text message and 41% simply think that having your phone on the table face-up is simply rude.

3. Did You Hear What (Kanye) Did Yesterday?

Research has shown that asking highly controversial questions such as “What do you think of abortion” or “Have you ever had someone break your heart?” eventually creates more interesting, meaningful and appealing conversations than questions about pastimes, family or work. Of course, these topics are important, but asking a question that requires emotional consideration and openness to values establishes a level of trust that is necessary for a deeper level of attraction.

4. I Know What You Mean, It Reminds Me Of..

Women feel most strongly connected to the men who interrupt them – but probably not in the way you imagine. To be clear: cutting someone off to dominate the conversation is not attractive. But successful dates include exchanges in which the man skillfully interrupt the woman to say something that showed that they had a shared experience. For example, an ideal exchange would be for the woman to say something like: “I saw David Guetta last summer and he is an incredible DJ” and the man stops her to say: “I’m so jealous – Guetta is one of my favorite DJ’s, too” before letting her continue. In other words, interruptions can be a good thing, as long as they are made to show that you are careful.

5. On A Sunday Morning, I Love To..

The more a man can build an image of his life that includes the woman, the more likely she is to be interested. For example, saying that you like being active is not interesting. But if you say, “I like to get up on a Sunday morning, have a coffee and a croissant at my favourite coffee shop, then go down to the beach with my surfboard and tackle the waves”, it gives him a clear idea of what you mean. Then continue with a question like: “Do you surf? Otherwise, I’d like to teach you. It’s so much fun.” In this way, your date can decide whether or not what you like to do seems interesting to her. Such statements are an invitation to deeper conversations, which begin to build a more complete and attractive picture of what your life might look like.

6. My Family Is Important To Me

A good relationship with your family, or even with your loved ones, is certainly something you want to show off on a first date. If you have good relationships with family and friends, it proves that you are capable of the reciprocity necessary for a healthy relationship. Basically, it reinforces the idea that you are a caring person who is able to have meaningful and lasting relationships. For most women, this is a huge advantage. It also sends a message that you know how to balance your life and that you are able to have good boundaries.

7. Thank You!

Simple, but true. Showing that you are kind and polite is not only very attractive, but it is also a very important quality for most women looking for a partner. Your kindness should not only be confined to her. Be cordial to servers, bartenders and anyone else you interact with during the date. By showing that you believe that all people are worthy of respect, you establish that you are a good man and it’s sexy.

8. I Love Hiking Too, We Should Do It Sometime

Yes, being offered a second date when the time comes is sexy: For most people, it is better to wait until the high point of the evening and once you have found similar interests or values, explain how you would like to share this experience with her. This shows that you are really interested in continuing the relationship, which will make her more likely to accept future dates with you.

9. I Am Not Free On Friday, Is Saturday Okay For You?

This gives the illusion that you are busy and that you are a person in demand. It may be supply and demand at work, but people feel special when they know that your time is precious and that you still make them one of your priorities. And while the mystery is sexy, you don’t want to be a jerk. Tell her that you understand that a good relationship is about quality time and that even if you have many important commitments, you know that to have a good relationship, it is essential.

10. I Love Coffee - Don’t You?

Trust the Goddess on this final tip for today - talking about coffee has some extremely nice benefits. First of all, it is a nice go-to theme if you ever dry up the themes to talk about with your date - and second of all, you get to explain things about coffee in a sexy way. Think about how you enjoy having your coffee and explaining it to your date in a nice, soothing, sexy tone. Bound to get the heart beating faster, absolutely guarantee it! :D

And that is ittttttt for today’s post lovely ladies and gents!

I really hope you enjoyed the read!

Goddess is out to enjoy the rainy weather in Thessaloniki some more, have a great Thursday ahead lovely ladies and gents, catch you all tomorrow,

xxxx