Hellooooo and good afternoon lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to the end of the week post with your Goddess as every Saturday means that the last post of the week is right in front of us - and boy do I have something really peculiar in mind for you guys today as I will be sharing several sex tips that can make or break your weekend!
Stick around for today’s post, enjoy the read and if you feel the need to show gratitude - remember to drop some lovely cups of coffee for your Goddess!
Weekends can get away from us pretty quickly; Friday night might mean after work drinks or passing out on the couch from exhaustion; Saturday’s are full of grocery shopping and running errands before dinner plans with friends; and Sunday usually consists of preparing for the week ahead while keeping an eye on the roast.
With responsibilities such as balancing work, a social life and parenting, the less likely you are to take a moment for yourself let alone find the time to be intimate. By putting your partner on your ‘to-do’ list this weekend you’ll feel better going into the week ahead; releasing built-up tension and producing endorphins will not only lift your mood but give you a clear head ready to work, all thanks to an orgasm or three.
Take the time with your partner this weekend and put your libido to work. I’ve got a few ideas on how you can spice things up — it’ll be such a great night you won’t see it cuming.
1. Shower Power
If you want to dip your toes in the water before diving right into the naughty stuff, share a hot shower with your partner. Strip off together and set the water to hot hot hot — getting into a steamy, soapy session with your lover will have you feeling like you’re in a scene from 50 Shades… minus the chains and whips.
2. Poll Position
When getting down to business do you and your partner automatically go to missionary or cowgirl? It’s time to find out if you both enjoy something a little unconventional; if you want to play it safe, try a spooning position (both laying on your side facing the same way) or if you want a twist literally on an old favourite try the reverse cowgirl (you’re on top facing their feet).
3. Location
When it comes to sex, we all know the first place we think of is the bedroom: it’s safe, private, familiar, but can get a little mundane. Try moving your session to somewhere different in the house whether it’s the couch, kitchen or rug! If you’re restricted at home that’s when you can get a little creative — I’m sure your back seat is bigger now than it was in your 20s.
4. I Lube You Baby
The beauty of lubricant is underestimated; not only does it help keep everyone set and ready to go, they come in a myriad of flavours designed to enhance your experience and taste buds. Go into any legitimate pleasure store and they’ll let you sample flavours to see what you and your partner enjoy. When it’s time to get intimate you’ll be craving the flavour and the experience every time.
5. Outfits
Got an old costume lying around or have an outfit similar to what a sexy librarian might wear? Have a little fun with role play, even if it’s pretending not to know each other at a bar, you can give your acting skills a flex and pretend to be someone else for a night. You and your partner will have fun while playing dress up, and even more fun dressing each other down.
6. Food
Bring your two favourite things together for a magical night; introducing food to your foreplay routine will not only lengthen the lead-up to sex, but give you an appreciation for using your partner as a plate. Try beautifully scented foods like sweet strawberries, papaya, or grapes to feed your partner or eat off their stomach or try a warm chocolate sauce to stimulate your touch, smell and taste senses. However be careful not to go too hard on the snacks, you don’t want to get a stitch halfway through the session.
7. Surprise Surprise
Planning and prioritising sex can be important, but nothing can switch on your libidofaster than an out-of-the-blue passionate kiss from your partner. Have a conversation about being more spontaneous with one another, the element of surprise is more stimulating than you’d expect. Spend a little more time in bed on Sunday morning, or take a flirty moment in the kitchen to a quickie before dinner — turn up the heat and turn on the love.
And there you have it boys and girls, the Saturday post is done nice and easy!
I really hope you enjoyed the read throughout this week lovely readers. I will be back on Monday to kick-start the new week - and until then, I wish you all a delightful weekend ahead of you!
Goddess loves you all,
xxxx