The rules of cleavage
Good morning fellow readers of the Goddess blog and welcome to another day - another post and for today I have in mind a very interesting topic to discuss with you guys - namely, I want to talk about one of the sexiest things about girls - cleavage! I have yet to find a guy who is not attracted to a nice cleavage view, but what are the rules of a good cleavage that can get the blood pumping in your extremeties guys? Stick around as the Goddess will be sharing her thoughts - and as always, remember to get this Goddess some nice cups of coffee if you are attracted by my cleavage? :)))
The average breast size has grown from a 34B to a 36C since the 1970s and clothing styles are smaller and snugger. So it’s no wonder the line between “Nice!” and “Look at those!” has blurred. If you're confused about when to flaunt them and when to cover up, here’s what the Goddess has to say:
Rule #1: Acknowledge the obvious.
Sex sells. And like it or not, breasts get beer sold and burgers bought. It’s not such a stretch to realize your ta-tas are more likely to get checked out than, say, your knees or collarbones.
So do a double take in the mirror before walking out the front door in the morning. Women understand the power of breasts in general, but they don’t understand the power of their own. You may aim for different effects depending on the situation, but understanding how and when to tap into the power of your cleavage will help you achieve the desired result anytime, anywhere. One can look like a hoochie mama, Mother Superior or somewhere in between as a sexy and classy woman. There's nothing more fascinating than a woman who owns her sex appeal and her power. For best results, breast power should be wielded with awareness and intent. We have to realize that breasts are your femininity and sexuality at the same time. That’s what the power of cleavage is all about – using your sexuality or not.
Rule #2: Sometimes less is more.
In some industries, it’s appropriate – in fact, required – to play up your cleavage: entertainment, fashion, Hooters, to name a few. Unless your career success rests on your chest, though, it's probably wiser to rely on your other assets at the office. If cleavage isn’t in your job description, don’t write it in. Too much boobage, and you may end up perceived as sexual, not professional. Showing a lot of breast is a distraction, especially in the workplace. Wear a very low-cut wrap dress or shirt, and everyone will focus on the boobs. We all need to be appropriate and be responsible for the message we send out. Think before you even enter your closet what your image is going to communicate. So buy a full-length mirror and take a look at yourself. If your breasts are standing out, that’s probably inappropriate. Don’t reveal more than an inch of cleavage at work. The same holds true for your company’s holiday party and meeting your boyfriend’s parents for the first time.
Rule #3: Sometimes more brings more.
All bets are off when the sun goes down. Feel free to flaunt your curves and play up cleavage for a night on the town. This is the time to pair a push-up bra with a plunging neckline or, if you’re small-chested and daring, go with a sexy backless number and skip the bra. Revealing 4-5 cm of cleavage during off hours will get the job done. Think of your cleavage as an accessory, and make sure it suits your outfit and the occasion. Or, quite frankly, you might be an exhibitionist, and that’s OK too. When it comes to breast etiquette, pregnancy is the other exception.
Rule #4: Be age-appropriate.
The scientific reality? Gravity will eventually win in the quest for perky breasts. And since you can’t fight physics without a boob job – or a lot of duct tape – those not willing to go under the knife should aim for a look that complements a natural, mature bust line. Wear a well-fitting bra, but skip boosters to avoid an unnaturally high, crinkled cleavage. Often a woman who is a little bit older will wear a push-up bra, and she looks sort of odd. Instead, select a bra that separates and supports your breasts, and don’t be afraid to wear a top that shows off your décolletage. A sheer or lacy camisole adds a sexy detail that also camouflages less than perfect skin. But skip the plunging, belly-button baring neckline. And don’t even think about going braless. You're never too old to be sexy, but it's ridiculous to see a woman in her 60s or 70s walking around without a bra.
Rule #5: Always flatter your rack.
Regardless of size, your success at putting your best breasts forward is ultimately determined by your clothing. Here’s how the Goddess recommends you gussy up your girls:
For big boobs:
V-necklines will open up the décolletage and elongate your neck.
Look for seaming on tops that emphasis your waist.
Wrap dresses help create an hourglass shape. Add a cami underneath for more coverage.
Wear necklaces that hang above the cleavage or down by your midriff.
Avoid square necklines.
For small boobs:
Pleating, gathering or beading at the bust will provide a fuller look.
Wrap dresses create a flattering shape for petite and larger chests.
Achieve a sexy look with a low-cut fitted top draped with necklaces – beads, chains, pearls, the works – and paired with jeans.
All boobs:
Wear a well-fitting bra.
Consider a minimizer if you are particularly well-endowed.
When women get a good-fitting bra or minimizer bra, they look better in their clothes. When you have larger breasts, they're moving all the time. It gives you the support you need and makes you feel more secure.
Rule #6: Be adaptable.
Expect and accept that during your life, your cleavage and breasts will change – a lot. Age, weight, pregnancy, PMS and gravity all make a great case for continuously reevaluating how the rules apply to your boobs. Even though women wear 7-8 different sizes of bras over their lifetimes, don’t expect your set to ever match up with anyone else’s. Like snowflakes, no two breasts are the same, not even those on the same chest. As your girls change, remember that maintaining a sexy, powerful presence isn’t just about your cleavage. Think outside the bra, and use physical assets beyond your breasts, such as toned arms, a strong back and flat tummy. And, of course, your best quality isn’t a body part at all. Self-confidence can often be the sexiest thing you can wear!
That is it for today’s post fellow ladies and gents! Hope you enjoyed the read!
Until tomorrow I bid you all adieuuu,
xxxx
