Spicy sex tips to improve your sex life

Good morning fellow blog readers of the Goddess and welcome to another day and another post by yours truly and today I will be sharing several interesting tips that you guys might wanna implement in your daily sex routine in order to spice-up your sex life! Stick around for this one as it is bound to make you guys wanting to try them out ASAP - and as always, remember: Let this Goddess have some sips of coffee!

Nothing kills a relationship faster than boredom.

It’s too easy to slip into a routine with your partner. Just like with work, study, going to the gym or even eating, sex is vital to a good relationship but it can become routine and boring. When that happens, you and your man will start looking elsewhere for your thrills.

Don’t let this happen to your relationship!

Without any further ado, here are some kinky and spicy sex tips from your Goddess in order to let the fun back into your relationship!

1. Try New Sex Positions

This is the easiest, but also one of the most effective ways of keeping things interesting.

If your partner is not keen to try out new sex positions, then you are going to need to be the one who takes action.

Pick out a few positions (only 1 or 2) from the sex positions section and keep them in mind the next time you are in bed with your partner. There’s no need to tell her that you want to try them. Instead, just take the position and help to guide her.

And for the ladies, if you’ve never taken the lead in bed before, you may feel a little nervous trying this. But your man will enjoy it. Trust me.

You’ll find it best to try out some of the easier to perform positions that don’t require lots of flexibility and are easy to transition to.

2. Explore Fantasies

Everyone has sexual fantasies. Everyone!

The problem for many people is that they think their fantasies are weird or a bit ‘out there’. They may not want to tell their man about their fantasies due to fear or potential embarrassment or their man thinking they are weird.

The fact is your man will be thinking the same thing!

So there might be certain fantasies or things to do that turn you on, but you never actually get to experience them in real life.

3. Pinch Her Ass

This is probably the most ridiculous sounding sex tip you’ll hear from me. But it works really well.

The next time you are saying goodbye to your partner, as you lean in to kiss her, quickly grab her bum. You can pinch it, smack it or just grab it with your hand.

Make sure it’s quick, but don’t say anything about it.

And don’t explain, if she asks why you did it.

Just smile at her.

For your lady, it’s a little confusing, but it’s also a sure sign that you like her and can be naughty too.
Caveat: Don’t use this every single day or every week. Only use it about once a month to keep things fun and flirty.

4. Sex Toys

Sex toys are great. Especially if you want to spice things up. There is literally a sex toy for everything. For him, for her. For his penis, for your clitoris.

Using sex toys during foreplay is great for getting each other hot and bothered before sex. They can also be great instead of sex and during sex as well.

But like I advise with all of the tips you read here: if you solely rely on sex toys, then things will inevitably start to get boring and routine.
A good way to view sex toys is seeing them as a spice, not the main course.

Over the coming weeks, I will be adding a section on which sex toys work best and how to use them.

5. Shower Together

This simple sex tip is similar to pinching her ass. It must be used sparingly if you want it to remain effective.

The next time your man or woman goes for a shower, follow him/her in a minute later. From there, you have a choice of what to do:

• You could do nothing else but just wash him/her. It surprisingly sexy!

• Ladies, you could give your partner a blowjob. Try putting a towel under your knees if you do this, otherwise your knees can get very sore.

• You could have sex. Although, you’ll find that shampoo and water can quickly dry out your natural lubrication 🙁

6. Anticipation

One reason why sex can become dull and boring is because there is no build up, no anticipation and no tension before you have sex with your partner. It’s just a routine (for most couples it’s usually either every morning or evening).

To break out of this monotony, try building anticipation to something she’s not expecting. If you are on vacation with friends, text your lady and let her know how much you are missing her (and how horny you are).

Let her know what you are planning to do with her when you return. In detail…

This doesn’t only apply to when you are on vacation. You can try it right after you leave for work or school.
Caveat: Like with the other sex tips, try to use this one sparingly otherwise it can get boring pretty quickly.

7. Dirty Talk

Talking dirty to your man or woman can be really powerful.

Rather than rehashing everything already in the talking dirty section, you should really just check it out for yourself.

For those ladies who don’t know about the power of talking dirty, a lot of women like it as it can be used to keep your man constantly turned on and thinking about you when you are not around.

That is it for today’s post fellow ladies and gents! I hope you had a blast and really enjoyed the read!

Goddess wishes you all a splendid Tuesday, catch you all tomorrow

xxxxxx