Gooooood afternoon lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to this wonderful Monday in the company of your favorite Goddess!
It is time for the first blog of the week - I am sure that all of you had a fun weekend, so now it is the time to pick up the pace and get off to a splendid start to the week - and is there a better way to have the perfect Monday than with a nice post from yours truly? :))
Today I will be sharing several sexy habits that you guys ought to memorise because they will CERTAINLY AND GUARANTEED help you to drive anyone wild in desire about you!
Have you ever wondered which little habits or behaviors you could implement to attract people your way? There are some subtle behaviors that are often seen as sexy, some of which you can make a habit of. You may be wondering what these are. Well, here are six sexy Goddess-approved habits that drive others wild with attraction!
1. Learning
Being smart has its payoffs, and it can be quite a sexy trait. That’s why it might be a good idea to make it a habit to learn something new each and every day. The more knowledge you possess, the more intelligent you may seem to others as they can learn a lot from you. According to a 2019 study, individuals desire partners who are either as smart as them or smarter. In fact, intelligence was particularly valued as a long-term mate. So, it’s time to get studying and become irresistible with your intellect!
2. Calm Body Language
Are you a relaxed speaker? Do you use your hands dramatically when you talk to make a point? Well, here’s an interesting finding: using non-threatening cues, such as calmer body language gestures and speaking slowly, can make your newly acquainted date feel more comfortable. Leaning back and using smaller, more controlled body language gestures contributs to a more relaxed atmosphere during interactions. So, the next time you’re on a date, try incorporating these calm and confident gestures to create a positive impression.
3. Be Mindful!
When you’re nervous during a date or around your crush, your thoughts can often wander, making mindful discussion sometimes difficult during the first few minutes. However, it’s best to practice mindfulness and remind yourself to be present in the moment. In a 2015 experiment, researchers found that men who actively engaged in a conversation, rather than being distant, were seen as more attractive among heterosexual women. Active listening and being fully present can create a deeper connection and show genuine interest. So, the next time you’re having a conversation, make an effort to be fully engaged and watch the attraction grow.
4. Speak With Passion
This works well when a mutual attraction is already established. It applies to both men and women. We can't help but love what our lovers love. Guys out there have probably experienced this before – especially in the honeymoon phase. When she talks about anything, you can't help but encourage her. Passion is energy. It fuels the people around you the more you show it. Gents, the same goes for the ladies. Once they like you, they WANT to hear what you have to say. As one article put it, passionate men appear set on their goals. They seem like they know what they want and nothing can stop them. THAT is sexy. This doesn't mean to prattle on endlessly about the mundane. Once the conversation broaches your interests, though, commit!
5. Be Kind And Generous
This may sound cheesy as far as “secret habits” go, but it holds true. We ladies know not to count ourselves when gauging your manners. We know you're after something – a phone number, a good time, or a relationship.
Instead, we pay attention to how you treat others – people you don't have a vested interest in. Some folks call this the waitress test, where the woman observes how the man treats wait staff.
Let's face it. If you're rude to staff, then it's a strong indicator of the kind of man you truly are.
Be nice! And yeah - it is always a plus if you are nice AND generous. Don’t be cheap around a lady, ever! Get her those flowers, get her that ice cream, it is the little things that count - and yeah, go get that coffee too! :)
That is ittttttt for today’s post lovely ladies and gents! I really hope you guys enjoyed the read!
Now that you are ready for everything that Monday has to throw your way, I wish you all a wonderful day ahead and catch you all tomorrow!
xoxoxoox