Hellooooo and good afternoon lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another day in the company of your lovely Goddess, today I will be sharing with you guys several tips that will help you improve your dirty talk!
Dirty talk is a sexual practice in which partners use words and sounds to increase arousal and mutual sexual pleasure. Dirty talk can include single sounds or words (like “yes,” “more,” or a moan), phrases that describe what’s happening, or more complex ideas that detail upcoming action or construct a fantasy. So without any further ado, here are several Goddess TIps that will make you a literal GOD at dirty talk!
1. Listen To Your Partner
People who enjoy dirty talk in their sex lives often have particular words and phrases that they prefer in the bedroom. These preferences can range from enjoying a specific word more than another or preferring a certain tone of talk (for example, a gentler style instead of a more intense one). Dirty talk can also offer additional insights into what your partner may enjoy exploring in the future. Take note if they mention a particular sex position or sex toy during their talk, and see if they want to try it out later.
2. Different Tones
Even though dirty talk has a reputation for always being sultry, serious, and kinky, it can also be more innocent. You and your partner may find that you both enjoy a tone that’s cute or teasing, or a sillier style with lots of laughs. Try out different tones during sexual activities, or pay attention to what happens naturally when you’re with your partner and replicate the tone they enjoy.
3. Compliment Your Partner
If you can’t think of sexy things to say when talking dirty, simply make it a compliment. Telling your partner that you love the way they do something or complimenting a particular part of their body is a great way to make them feel good. You can also comment on your arousal levels as a type of compliment—for instance, telling them how aroused you feel or letting them know you love how their body looks when they’re aroused.
4. Sexual Texts
If you or your partner are interested in dirty talk but feel a little shy or nervous about how to start face-to-face, consider trying it out over text first. Sexual texting (or sexting) can offer a more relaxed environment for first-time dirty talkers because it puts distance between you and your partner, and you can take your time to come up with the best response. You can also spice up your sexts with sensual photos or audio messages.
5. Relax And Have Fun!
The point of dirty talk is to have a fun sexual experience with your partner. If you try out dirty talk and you’re feeling overwhelmed, stressed out, or self-conscious to the point that you’re not having fun, take a break. You can try again later or even decide that dirty talk just isn’t for you.
And there you have it boys and girls, 5 tips that you should have in mind while practicing dirty talk!
Now go out there and remember these for talking dirty that will improve your next steamy experience! :))
Goddess is out for the day, catch you all tomorrow,
xooxox