More eye contact during sex please!
Good afternoon lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to this beautiful Saturday in the company of your favorite Goddess, today we will be rounding off this first week of March with a blog post about why I think eye contact is a definite MUST while having sex! Without any further ado, let’s get right into it!
Eye contact is powerful.
Whether it's a prospective customer you're interacting with or a random stranger across the room, holding someone's gaze is a great tool for establishing or building a connection with someone. That's true whether the eye contact is romantic or not.
While often under-utilized, making eye contact during sex is a great way of fostering intimacy that can elevate sex in various ways. In no particular order, here are some Goddess reasons as to why eye contact should be a must in the bed!
1. Eye Contact Increases Arousal
During sex, your arousal is heightened when you're making eye contact with each other.
Eye contact stimulates the release of dopamine, which can create feelings of pleasure and reward.
Additionally, adrenaline is also released, which can create a feeling of excitement and arousal during sex.
2. Strenghtens Your Bond
Making direct eye contact is associated with increased levels of honesty. During intimacy, this can help to establish increased levels of trust between you and your partner, which in turn strengthens your bond.
When you make eye contact, during sex or not, your brain releases oxytocin, known as the love hormone. This hormone is associated with closeness and long-term bonding, which can enhance the emotional connection that you already have with your partner.
3. Increases Desireability
Direct eye contact during sex makes your partner feel desired at an even deeper level.
As a matter of fact, a study published revealed that strangers of the opposite sex who gazed into each other's eyes for two minutes reported significantly higher feelings of affection and greater liking for their partners.
It really drives home the point of this isn't just sex, it's sex with you that's turning me on, and there's no sexier feeling than that.
4. Focus On The Partner’s Pleasure
Eye contact shows your partner that you are paying attention to them, and that you care about their pleasure and if they're having a good time.
This affirmation is a great reassurance to your partner that you care about them and their needs during sex, which makes them feel worthy of your love.
5. Ultimate Display Of Emotions
Our eyes are our most expressive feature. Making eye contact during sex is an open window to our emotions, allowing us to convey how we're feeling in that moment.
It allows us to communicate to our partners our desires and needs without having to use words.
This can help to make sex more enjoyable for both partners, as you'll be able to better understand each other's needs and wants through eye contact.
And there you have it boys and girls, that is a wrap for this lovely Saturday blog post and indeed for this week’s blogging!
I hope all of you have a splendid weekend, have fun and catch you all on Monday!
xooxox
