Moaning makes sex better

Hellooooooo lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to this lovely FRIDAY in the company of your favorite Goddess!

Since it is the weekend, I decided to offer you guys a special treat for today - I will be sharing my thoughts about moaning and why I think that moaning makes sex better as a whole!

As an avid moaner during sex (and a dirty talker mind you), I will be guiding you through my thoughts in today’s blog post - so let’s get right into it!

Whether it’s intentional or not, moaning during sex can be quite the power move. Even the slightest breathless moan or involuntary grunt can communicate (to you, your partner(s), and any eavesdropping roommates) that things are going great between the sheets.

However, fully unleashing those sounds of pleasure may be a little intimidating, especially if you’re overthinking the way you “should” sound. Sure, you want to embrace your sex noises and reap all the benefits of making some noise in bed, but not at the expense of sounding like you’re, well, faking it over Big Mac sandwiches at McDonalds.

Whether you're a naturally enthusiastic moaner who wants more guidance on how to use sex noises to maximize your sexual communication skills, or you're a more ~reserved~ lover in need of tips on how to let loose and turn up the volume, never fear - as the Goddess is here to spread some wisdom!

1. How do I use moaning to make sex better?

There are a number of ways moaning can be used to make sex better. You could use it as an indicator to see what your partner does/doesn't like, which will make you a better lover pretty much instantly.

Try to develop the skill to detect when your partner is faking moaning and when they are making authentic sounds of pleasure. Not only will this guide you when it comes to pleasing them, but it can also help your partner feel comfy opening up and letting their walls down.

Moaning is one of those primal responses that happen when you let go of your inhibitions and simply experience the moment. That, in itself, will make sex better for you which in turn, will probably turn your partner on even more.

Moaning is super sexy and it shows that it's a positive experience. People want to feel like they're doing a good job in bed. It's highly erotic to hear confirmation.

2. Does Moaning Help You Orgasm?

Okay, so in addition to moaning being a natural response to pleasure for some folks, it can actually help you—and your partner—reach climax. Allowing your sounds to emanate freely can facilitate your body’s overall response. When you muffle your sounds, you often stifle your breath. And breath aids in circulation, arousal, and orgasm.

Again, moaning isn't for everyone, but if you're actively stifling your moans, it's a good idea to evaluate why that is: Do you feel deserving of pleasure? Have you trained yourself to adjust your sounds to suit your partner’s expectations related to your identity? Do you want to challenge these norms/expectations?

If you realize you're holding your moans in, spend some time reflecting on the reasons behind it.

3. How Do I Become Comfortable Moaning?

Getting into moaning is as simple as just deciding to do it. If you want to moan, but it's not your thing—just consciously moan when something feels good. If you're feeling kinda weird about just jumping into moaning, the Goddess has a fun suggestion to make the experience easier:

Play a little game of primal play. Get on all fours and pretend you are an animal (of your choice). Moan and grunt and roll over each other like lions in the Savannah. Sure it sounds kinda goofy, but it reactivates your primal instincts, gets your heart rate going, and acts as some fun foreplay.

That being said, moaning is by no means necessary. There's nothing wrong with making other noises. Just communicate with your partner about when something feels good, and when something doesn't.

4. Does The Volume Of Moans Matter?

Moan as loudly or as softly as you want. If someone is rude to you about how loud you are, don't have sex with them. There are plenty of people out there who will appreciate it. There's no right or wrong way to sound, mmkay?

And if you want to up the volume of your moans without feeling like you're auditioning for the local theatre, try “leaning in” to your breath with sound. Essentially, allow a little more sound to accompany each breath until it feels natural to make more and more noise with increased sensation.

But again: You don't have to moan so loud your neighbors need noise-canceling headphones if that's not your thing. But if it is like it’s the Goddess’s: then just be my guest! :D

And that is ittttt for this lovely Friday’s post, dear folks!

Hope you enjoyed the read!

Have a splendid Friday ahead of you, catch you all tomorrow,

xoxoox