How to talk dirty with confidence
Greetings lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcomeee to the weekend - it’s Friday today and the Goddess has in store for you guys an extra spicy blog post, I will be sharing several tips that will show you guys and gals how to talk dirty with a confidence of a God/Goddess! Stick around for today’s post, I promise it will be a wild one - and as always, remember to get your lovely Goddess some weekend cups of coffee!
Dirty talk may feel strange at first as you pick your brain for the perfect dirty things to say to your partner. Relax a little—talking dirty isn't an exact science, and navigating it relies more on how comfortable you are versus how much you know about it. Here's how to talk dirty during sex, plus sexy things to say to your partner outside the bedroom to build excitement.
1. Ease Into It
Give yourself permission to go at your own pace. Sharing your fantasies via text may be a better choice if you're not comfortable with any face-to-face play yet. You're on nobody's schedule to learn how to dirty talk except your own.
2. Don’t Overthink
It doesn't have to be super creative, but it should feel good to you and your partner. Good sex is supposed to be freeing and explorative. The dirty things you say to your partner should feel natural and flow with the moment.
3. Have FUN!
Let dirty talk elevate your sexual experience, not hinder it. The sooner you disregard the pressure you put on yourself, the easier exploring the sexual experience will be. You can help your partner navigate your body. Shoot, it may even lead to more fulfilling sex for everyone involved.
4. Avoid Specifics
When you want to describe the moment for your partner, you don't have to mention their cup size or their girth. Something as simple as "I love your body" can get the ball rolling. And if you want to throw in a few adjectives, generals like—fat, huge, and wet work really well.
5. Get Comfy With Your Partner
The comfort you feel in your relationship has everything to do with what you're willing to try sexually. Talking with your partner(s) beforehand about your interests in dirty talk can be a great way to reduce the anxiety when you're actually in the moment. Communicate, explore, and communicate some more.
6. No Judging
A greater sense of intimacy can blossom in your relationship by learning how to talk dirty. Dirty talking isn't about it being gross or crude or vulgar. It's just more about, does it make you feel hot? What makes a phrase dirty is how sexually aroused you get from hearing it. Be the person that champions someone's sexual fantasy, not crushes it.
So go out there - and have some confidence while dirty talking!
That is it for today’s post guys! Have a jolly Friday ahead of you, catch you all tomorrow to cap of this week!
Goddess outttt,
xxx
