How to swallow and enjoy
Gooooood morning lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another Friday and another weekend by your one and only Goddess!
Today will be a post that will peak the interest of both man and woman readers for I will be sharing my tips on how to give a very pleasurable blowjob - and how to swallow the finale of your partner and enjoy it to the maximum! :)))
Stick around for today’s post, I am very certain you will love it - and as always, remember to let the Goddess have some nice sips of coffee along the way!
There are lots of people who don't swallow. And, lots of men who don't care and think a blowjob is the greatest sexual gift no matter what. What matters is knowing your partner well enough to know what is important to them. Yes, you can learn to swallow, if that's what you really want to do. But unless it is someone really special (who has been tested) and who is eating you out like there is no tomorrow... why would you?
While it is important to understand the preferences of your partner and to be able to work together so that everyone has a great sexual experience, the pleasure of receiving oral sex is not dependent on the swallow. Focusing on the finish ignores the talent and skill that it takes to perform a great blow job, not to mention the pleasure that provides. Oral sex feels great, but swallowing has little to do with the actual physical pleasure. The essence of a blowjob is friction to the head of the penis, pressure to the base, and lubrication to facilitate the process. Suction and tongue-work augment the friction.
In addition to technique, there is a lot to be said for enthusiasm and passion. Beyond physical pleasure, the difference between a great blow job and a not-so-great blow job is the psychological stance of the giver, namely does she seem into it?. There are lots of ways to be into something — sensual, sweet, passionate, powerful — and guys can tell the difference generally between authenticity and going through the motions.
In other words, you can swallow a river but if your technique sucks, so to speak, and you seem repulsed, you're not going to impress anyone. Showing him you're really down, with authentic groans and getting into it, will go a lot farther than one gulp.
Having said that, and if your guy is really that special, here are some tips on how to swallow and enjoy yourself:
1. Communicate
Let him know what you are comfortable with and, if there are circumstances that might help you to feel differently, what that might be. It's important to communicate your likes and dislikes and also be able to talk about them and feel like you're both listening and being heard. Taking a sexual behavior like swallowing off the table shouldn't be a deal breaker, especially if a partner enjoys other aspects of oral sex. Also, if not swallowing allows you to really enjoy the other parts of fellatio, let your partner know this.
2. Try Something New
High-level technique requires study. When you were in school, if you wanted to get an A on a test, you studied for it. To get an A as a lover is no different. Many people have a hard time putting their ego aside to learn about sex and anatomy. "Why should I? I already know how to give a blow job," you may think to yourself. But you can always heighten your partner's pleasure, give better orgasms, and learn new things. When it comes to technique, no matter how much you know, it is best to put your ego aside and approach this learning process from a place of openness and humility. There is no shame in learning, and asking what feels good — and what could feel better — is a good place to start.
3. Deepthroat
Spice things up by going deeper than you usually do. Check out some tips and techniques from my blog posts from earlier about deep throating to give swallowing a whole new meaning.
4. Keep It Equal
Make sure that oral sex is reciprocal, that one person is not doing all the heavy lifting while the other lays back. This can breed resentment and make a partner nitpick and focus on what he isn't getting (swallowing) instead of what he is getting.
5. Don’t Stop Until It’s Over
A really common mistake that people without penises make is to stop blowing mid-orgasm which can make it less pleasurable. If you don't want to swallow, don't stop applying friction with your hand until a guy has finished ejaculating.
So there you have it boys and girls - and ladies, now go ahead and blow the hell out of your partner :)))
That is itttttt for today’s post guys! Goddess will be back tomorrow to round up the week, I wish you all a wonderful Friday ahead of you,
xxxxx
