How to give your Sugar Daddy a proper handjob

Goooooood morning lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another day and another blog post by your favorite Goddessss, it is Saturday today and you know that I always like finishing the weekly blog posting in some style - so for today I will be sharing my secrets in which a lot of you lovely Sugar Babes can learn how to give your Sugar Daddy a handjob that he will never forget!

Stick around for today’s post, enjoy the read and be sure to drop in some lovely cups of coffee for your Goddess along the way!

For people who don’t have penises, handjobs can feel a little mysterious, even in their supposed simplicity. Since there’s no way to know firsthand what works, a little guesswork is usually going to be involved, no matter how much you communicate with the recipient. There will be some guesswork involved in how to give a handjob no matter what your gender. Even those who do have penises and enjoy giving and/or getting standard-issue HJs still might occasionally wonder if there’s more to the matter at hand than they realize!

And remember, you don’t just want to learn “how to give a handjob,” you want to know “how to give a good handjob.” Here are some tips about how to get a grip. Goddess approved!

1. Get Into A Hot Position

A handjob is definitely a longstanding classic within the “sex where at least one person has a penis” repertoire, but exactly how you engage in one can add a little novelty to how you might normally go about it. Depending on your flexibility, wrist mobility, and overall comfort making eye contact with your partner, there are a few positions that can reconfigure your usual HJ. 

Face-to-face positions make eye contact easy, which intensifies the experience—and they offer your best bet for ample mobility and range of motion. The recipient can sit down (or stand up) and kneel in front of you, or both of you can get comfortable on the bed. 

2. Use Lube

Handjobs need a little extra lubrication if you want to avoid skin-on-skin friction, which will make things uncomfortable for your partner and torpedo the HJ. 

Avoid oils and lotions like coconut oil, since those shouldn’t be used near urethras. Opt for a waterproof lube if you want to take your handjob into the shower. Most sex toys respond best to water-based lubes because silicone-based ones can degrade silicone-based toys, so keep that in mind if you’re adding one into the mix. 

3. Spit On Your Daddy’s Penis

A good spit—and the visuals and sound effects that come with it—can be super arousing for both partners. It lets your partner know that you’re putting in that work! Plus, your saliva is a symbol of your overall commitment to making the HJ freakier than your average one. (Also, people do it in porn.)

Spitting on your partner can also be the perfect gateway into experimenting with control because it gives you the power over how wet and sloppy your handjob gets. Keep in mind that spit dries and evaporates quickly, so, again, augment it with a water-based lube if you want things to stay wetter for longer, which you almost certainly do.

4. Get Your Daddy Hard In Your Hand

If you start the handjob before your partner is completely hard, use the surface on the inside of your hand and fingers to caress their shaft and balls until your partner has a full erection. Alternate with different textures and amounts of pressure, like lightly tickling your partner’s dick with your fingertips or using your entire palm to gently rub their penis, starting from the base of their shaft and moving slowly up to the tip. Once you’ve reached the top, circle their head with all five fingers and gently squeeze and rub. 

Even before your partner is completely hard, lube is a must. You want them to experience the fully wet sensation while they warm up. They’ll be excited while getting excited at the prospect of a handjob. Sometimes, the sloppier the HJ, the better. 

5. Tight Grip

Up-and-down motions imitate penetration, so it’s not a bad idea to start there. Aim for a consistent, firm grip: Don’t bend it or bite it, but give it a strong go. If you’re unsure about how tight is too tight, start looser and increase firmness as you build momentum. Keep an eye out for their body signals—like faster breathing and moaning—to inform which speeds and amounts of pressure are turning them on, or when you might want to try something else.

6. Both Hands, Please

Two-handed handjobs cover more surface and can help you add speed and control. Interlock your fingers to cover their head and shaft while you move your hands up and down, as one. If you want to most closely imitate the feeling of penetrative sex, this method comes extremely close. Lightly squeezing with both hands can feel more like the inside of a vagina or an anus than your grip might if you used just one hand. 

If you’d rather create circular movements, stack one hand on top of the other and twist each hand in opposite directions while you move up and down. This sensation isn’t as easily attainable during penetration, so including it in your handjob will make it feel particularly distinctive.

7. Special Attention To The Balls

This is a very easy way to blow your Sugar Daddy’s mind. Gently tug, massage, or stroke your partner’s balls while your other hand is on the shaft of their dick. If you want to mix up the sensations, you can kiss or suck on your partner’s balls while keeping the handjob going.

8. Edging

Edging means getting your partner extremely close to orgasm, then touching them less intensely to put it off a little longer, which can make it feel even more out-of-control good when they do come. Alternate speed and techniques every couple of minutes to keep the anticipation building, and switch to light strokes with one or two fingers if you’ve taken a heavier handle with your entire palm.

9. Touch Yourself

Just because you’re not on the receiving end of manual stimulation from a partner doesn’t mean you can't make use of your free hand yourself! It’s probably hot to watch your partner enjoy the handjob you’re giving them, and the better you feel, the more your partner will likely feed off of your energy. Because the best handjob is the one that you get, too.

And that is ittttt for this week’s last post guys and gals!

I hope you enjoyed the read.

Have a beautiful weekend ahead of you, catch you all on Monday,

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