How to dominate your lady in bed
Gooooooood afternoon lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to the penultimate January post with your favorite Goddess, I have saved the best of my posts for this last January day - and now that the day has finally arrived, I will be sharing the secrets in which you guys can master the art of dominating your lady in bed!
Stick around for today’s post, enjoy the read - and remember to drop some coffees for your Goddess and show appreciation for the bloggin’! :))
For women, men are a mystery. For men, women are a mystery…
Especially when it comes to sex.
What do women want in bed? What arouses them so much that they can’t get enough of you? What makes a woman get so wild and passionate that she lets the dirty little “bitch” inside her out instead of just lying underneath you like a starfish?
Men have probably been asking these questions since the beginning of mankind. And it’s no wonder, because let’s face it:
Sex is a deal-breaker.
If the sex is good, the woman is addicted to you. If it’s bad, sooner or later she will seek sexual fulfillment elsewhere.
But don’t worry. There’s something women crave but very few men can give her: To be dominated by a man in bed.
Without any further ado, here are the Goddess tips that will teach you how to dominate the hell out of your lady in bed.
1. Psychological Dominance
Most men don’t have the slightest idea about that. They study the anatomy of a vagina by heart, and research the most unusual finger techniques. They make a science out of how far and at what angle the finger should be inserted into the female sex organ to ensure optimal stimulation.
What they do not understand: Without psychological dominance, for women, it’s like seeing a gynecologist. And it’s damn unsexy.
If you want to be dominant, you have to be the person who takes the initiative. The person who decides what happens, when it happens and how it happens.
To do this, of course, you have to know yourself what you want and develop a gut feeling for what the woman longs for. But don’t worry, that’s exactly why I wrote this article. I’ll give you some support in bed, so to speak (it’s up to you if you want to visualize it).
Let’s get to the first, elementarily important lesson: Don’t ask for permission.
(I know, a crazy statement in these times of #metoo…)
This is the opposite of being dominant. When you ask someone for permission, you put that person above you.
A dominant man sees sex as a kind of role-play in which he can try things outside the norm.
Then how are you supposed to know if she’s ready for something or not? Simply by initiating it and paying attention to her signals.
If she signals that she doesn’t like it, drop it and go back to what you were doing before without making a big deal about it. In God’s name, please DO NOT continue… this is called being a creep.
2. Right Mindset
To be a sexually dominant man, the right mindset is important. This determines your dominance at least as much as the dominant positions, sex toys and words you bring in.
Attitudes you should have:
I love being in control and being the boss
I’ll do whatever I feel like doing
She loves to give up control
She loves being dominated by me
It is her deepest desire to satisfy me and to be satisfied by me
You radiate these attitudes through your actions and your body language. This makes us ladies get wet before it even starts.
3. Verbal Domination
Men are primarily aroused by what they see; women are aroused by ALL their senses.
Most men make a fatal mistake in bed: they are as quiet as mice.
Many think it is stimulating and sexy not to talk in bed.
Or, after years of silent and lonely masturbation in a darkened room, they have developed the belief that it is strange to make noise during sex.
But that is not true! The opposite is actually the case:
Men who don’t talk in bed are hard for women to assess. They don’t know what you are up to or whether you like the way they are touching you right now. That makes them insecure.
Let me make one thing clear once and for all: if you don’t make noises in bed, you’re wasting your potential.
4. The Art Of Domination
As already discussed, it is the deepest desire of many women to be dominated by a man. Not only women - Goddesses too! :)))
A particularly effective way to give her what she desires so much is physical dominance.
Things you can do:
Press her body against the mattress
Take her hand and put it on your dick
Hold her hands above her head or behind her back so that she cannot move
Pull her hair (grab a whole tuft of hair by the root so that it doesn’t hurt)
Slap her on the butt
Throw her on the bed and/or turn her over
Choke her (watch the amount of force you use)
Note that it should be clear to her without question that behind this dominance lies tenderness and love. If you’re only interested in dominating her, she’ll soon realize that. And then it’s game over for you. And rightly so.
Never forget: you are not only doing this for yourself, but also (if not more) for her pleasure.
It is important that she must be turned on before any physical dominance.
In a completely rational state, nobody likes to be dominated. It is up to you to get her turned on first.
5. Bondage
The ultimate method of demonstrating physical and psychological dominance at the same time is to tie her up.
This is the highest form of submissive surrender. In this state she is totally subservient to you. It requires a lot of trust and connection (literally).
You don’t have to buy handcuffs, shackles or ropes to make her yield to you. Take your T-shirt, wind it and tie it around her wrists. In 50 Shades of Grey the protagonist uses his tie for this, which, of course, works as well. :)
So, here you have it. Five tips for unforgettable sex how to dominate a woman in bed
Far too few men make use of them.
One last request:
Use them responsibly!
Well that - and get some coffees for your writer! :)))))
That is itttttt for today’s post lovely readers!
I really hope you enjoyed the experience of dominating a lady in bed and are ready to utilize it :)
Have a great last day in January lovely people, the Goddess is out for today and tomorrow - I will be back on Thursday with another post to kickstart February the right way!
Peace and love,
xxx
