Get kinky with your partner - The Goddess Way!

Gooooooooood morning lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another day and another blog post by your one and only Goddess, today I will be sharing several kinky and nasty sex ideas that you and your beloved should definitely have in mind next time you have some sexy time in mind - and as always, remember to let the Goddess know your appreciation by dropping in some lovely cups of coffee along the way! :))

If chains and whips excite you, you and Rihanna are not alone. Kinky sex can fun! It can also be a little intimidating if you think you need to jump right into Fifty Shades of Grey-level antics.  (If a first-time lover approaches you with a BDSM contract, please run to the nearest exit). 

But there are simple steps you to add a little kink to your without needing an entire red room of equipment.

In no particular order, here are some kinky sex ideas and tips that you and your partner should have in mind - Goddess approved!

1. Communication

The first ingredient to successful kinky sex is communication. You don’t want to just whip out the cat-o-nine tails without warning. The kinky community uses “safe, sane, and consensual” as their guiding principles. So should you.

You may want to create a safe word that will stop the scene, especially if you’ll be role playing a situation where you’ll be saying “no” as part of the act. Red for stop, yellow for slow down, green for go is a popular option, but it can be anything that will immediately hit the breaks on sex… maybe Joe Biden.

2. Blindfold

Once the blindfold is on, experiment with different sensations like tickling, kissing, and biting. Or try a naked game of pin the tail on the donkey.

3. Talk Dirty

Sharing your fantasies can be intimidating, so try talking the talk before you walk the walk. Describe a kinky scenario you’ve been dreaming about. Even if you never want to do it IRL, can be just as sexy. Sometimes it’s even hotter than the real thing!

4. Buy Bondage

Using handcuffs can be safer than trying to tie your partner up in knots. Scarves and belts seem easy, but using improper equipment can cause pinching and tugging — and not the good kind. Visit your friendly woman-owned sex shop for recommendations. Or, if you really want to get into knots, pick up a book on Shibari.

5. Spanking

Start with a light smack on the cheek (after asking consent) to test out your partner’s pain threshold. Experiment with spanking the same spot over and over and moving your hand around to different spots. Hope you have a standing desk for the day after.

6. Watch Porn Together

Share a favorite with each other to learn more about what turns the other on. Don’t feel pressured to try what you see at home, just enjoy it. Maybe you’ll find new sex positions to try, or maybe you’ll just have fun watching the Olympic-level gymnastics of professional porn stars. 10/10 for the dismount!

7. Wear A Costume

Get in character for your role play scenario by wearing a costume or wig. After -Halloween is the perfect time to get costumes on clearance, though maybe steer clear of the Joe Exotic wig.

8. Wax Candle

Get a specialty massage wax that’s safe for your skin while still getting hot enough to give some sexy heat. Make sure you blow the candle out before you start pouring–sheets on fire is the wrong kind of heat.

9. Pull Her Hair

Start gentle with a handful of hair. The more hair you grab, the less likely it is you’ll pull out individual strands. You want it to be a tug, not a tweezing; your Sugar Baby will enjoy the hair pull guys, trust me :)))

10. Hold Back Their Orgasm

Take control over your partner’s orgasm. Tease them right to the edge and then lighten up the pressure. The longer you take to get them there, the bigger the payoff.

11. Make A Movie

Film your own porn video to enjoy later, or to just enjoy the filmmaking process. Just make sure your phone isn’t backing up to the family iCloud account. You don’t want your mom stumbling on it when she’s trying to show her friends the photos of her fall foliage trip.

12. Textures

Tease your partner with different textured items like a leather belt, latex gloves, and velvet scarves, preferably while they’re blindfolded. The different sensations will keep their body on high alert, and maybe you’ll uncover a new fetish.

13. Vibrations

Get a vibrator or butt plug for your partner that has a remote and take control. They get an orgasm with a side of power play, and you get something fun to click instead of the telephone that you have :D

That is ittttt for today’s Thursday post lovely ladies and gents!

I hope you liked it and I hope that all of you have a fantastic day ahead of you!

Goddess is outttt, see you all tomorrow,

xxx