7 tips for missionary sex
Goooooooood day lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another Saturday, the last one in the month of May in fact - and the last post for this week by your one and only Goddess!
For today, I will be sharing 7 tips in order to improve missionary sex, the most popular sex position out there - so be sure to read up throughout the post for the day, I am sure it will you get you horny and ready to improve your missionary game - and as always, remember to let the Goddess know your appreciation by dropping in some lovely cups of coffee along the way!
There's a good chance that missionary is your favorite sex position — your standby. And for good reason: the missionary position has great penetration, it's easy, and there's face-to face closeness. There's no reason for it to be boring. Yes, maybe you do it every single time you have sex, or nearly, but you have the potential to do a ton of different missionary variations.
Because I write about sex, and like to experiment, people assume my sex life is always a crazy combination of weird positions using pulleys and levers. Not true. OK, sometimes it's a little. Sometimes it's wild, sometimes it's non-existent, but a lot of the time I stick to what's simple. In fact some of the best sex I've ever had was with a guy I was hooking up from Seeking Arrangements with for over a year and a half and in all that time I swear we only did three or four positions. But we did them well, we played around in them, and the sex was great. And missionary position was the bedrock of our sex life, because it has so many options.
So here are seven tips for better missionary sex, because it's great and you're probably doing it all the time.
1. Bring A Friend
No, not a threesome (although if that's your thing, go for it!), but probably the shortest route to really upping any position is to add a little vibration. I recommend We Vibe for missionary position, but other couples toys or vibes will work just fine, too.
2. Pillows, Please
Props and pillows are a good way to make any position more comfortable. Every body is different, and if the way you fit together doesn't quite work, or makes your lower back twitch, don't suffer through— find something that works for the both of you. According to Durex, you can use a pillow "under the woman's hips or buttocks during missionary-style sex to deepen penetration", and just to make things more comfortable.
3. Test Your Flexibility
Trying placing your calves or knees on your partner's shoulders during missionary. This one can be too much for some people, either because they find it difficult to hold the leg position or because the penetration feels too intense. Totally fine, if it's not your thing. I really enjoy it— Cosmopolitan calls it the Rock n Roll, and it's definitely worth a try.
4. Power Shifts
If you're on bottom and your partner pulls back from thrusting and you join in, you can power-play a bit. Put your feet flat on the bed to get some leverage and add a different dimension to the old standby.
5. Get Your Hands Involved
One of the drawbacks of this position is that you're going to have some trouble doing any clit play (although if your partner is up a bit higher, it's available), but the good news if your hands are free for other things. Use your hands to pleasure your partner or to help control the speed and depth of the thrusting.
6. Tie It Up
Because it's a position that you probably know very well and feel comfortable in, it's a good time to introduce something a little kinkier still in a safe space. Women's Health suggests using "a scarf or tie (or handcuffs for those who are little more experienced with kink) and bind your hands above you as your guy takes the reins." It definitely kicks it up a notch.
7. Move Baby
Taking the basic position and moving it somewhere else is a great shift. Try missionary on the stairs, but if that seems a bit much, take the party to the couch, edge of the bed, or the countertop.
That is ittttttttt for this lovely Saturday blog post by yours truly lovely readers!
Goddess is out for the weekend, I hope all of you lovely souls have a beautiful Saturday and Sunday ahead - and I will be catching you all on Monday,
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