What to do when the conversation dies?
Greetings lovely readers of the Goddess blog and welcome to the last blogging day of the week, Saturday, and today in order to sign off this particularly lovely week, I will be sharing several texts that you guys can send if a conversation that you had with a certain lovely lady just died out! I am pretty sure that you can learn some quick ways in order to re-ignite a dying debate, so read through today’s post and as always, remember to get this Goddess some lovely cups of coffee to get her through the weekend!
The conversation was going so well. You were talking about your pets and your jobs and your third re-watch of Squid Games. And then... the chat just died. It wasn’t an intentional or angry death — but there just wasn’t a lot to follow up with their last text of “I know, right?” Sending texts to restart a conversation is definitely an art, but it doesn’t have to be rocket science. If the last thing you talked about was that stressful work deadline they had coming up, start there. If you don’t usually have deep text conversations, but you miss them anyway, your text doesn’t have to be profound — a photo of your new foster kitten might just do the trick. When you want to reach out again but you’re not sure how, check out these texts to send to restart a conversation that’s faded away.
1. ‘Hello. It’s me.’
If you’ve temporarily ghosted because work was A Lot, say hello again. Accompany this one with an Adele .gif to really drive the message home that you’re looking to reconnect. Fall furs and perfectly flowing hair are optional.
2. ‘I saw the funniest thing today and it reminded me of you.’
The last thing they sent was an emoji that was sweet, but requires no response. Want to keep the convo going? Start with a fresh story about that random possum you saw crossing the street.
3. ‘Oh my god, have you seen this?’
Definitely include a laughing emoji and a ridiculous TikTok link in this one so they don’t think anything’s wrong. It’s the perfect way to keep the chatter up when you know everything that happened in their day but you want to keep talking anyway.
4. ‘I’m baaaaaaaaack.’
Let your friend know you’ve returned to this planet with a cheeky acknowledgment that you’ve been MIA, but you’re ready to interact again. This one works especially well when you were the one to let the convo fall off.
5. ‘Hey, did you get to ask for that raise?’
Last time you talked — maybe it was yesterday, or maybe it was weeks ago — you know they were building up the courage to ask for a raise. Follow up about it to get the chat flowing again.
6. ‘What have you been up to? Other than not texting me?’
Depending on The Vibe you’re going for, add an upside down smiley or a winky face. If you’re feeling both playful and forgiving, try heart eyes or the little halo dude.
7. [insert photo here]
It can be of your irresistible puppy. Or, if you’re feeling yourself, it can be of irresistible you.
8. ‘Drinks?’
Or coffee. Or dinner. Whatever floats your hanging-out boat. As long as it gets you two talking again. On second hand… let it be coffee. Coffees are great, right? :))))))))))
That is it for today’s last post for the weeeekkkkk! Goddess loves you all and wishes you a delightful weekend ahead, catch you all on Monday!
xxxxx
