What qualities do women want in a man

Good morning lovely reading souls of the Goddess blog and welcome to another Monday and another week that will start with a bang - with a Goddess post on the Goddess blog! I hope your weekend was every bit as enjoyable as possible, so let’s continue that trend today, in a new week with a post that will share to you guys several things that you ought to possess in order to be attractive for the ladies out there! Stick around for today’s post as it will be pretty darn interesting - and as always, remember to let this Goddess have some sips of coffee? :)))

Finding your person is no easy task. And sometimes it feels like the dating pool is filled with too many frogs, not nearly enough princes (thanks, Meghan Markle). But never fear - the Goddess is here and I will let fellas know all of the qualities needed in order to find your very special person!

1. Chemistry

Don't feel bad the next time you turn someone down because "the chemistry" just isn't there. Initially women are drawn to men based on attraction. We think to ourselves, can we carry on a conversation with this person? Do I feel energized when I talk to this person? These are qualities that help to establish a foundation, to form a deeper connection, and a relationship with this person.

2. Vulnerability

It's difficult to build a relationship with someone who's closed off. A man who is vulnerable has a counter-cultural willingness to step away from the power position which men are raised to feel comfortable being in. For the partnership to happen, a man has to be willing to be vulnerable and he has to open his heart in order for that to happen. And heads up, ladies: this goes for you too.

3. Stability

This is a big one, because it has three parts. Stability means emotionally stable (so not flying off at the handle), then economically stable, and also relationally stable. If you're not familiar with the third part, it means you can count on him to be predictable, reliable, and that he's essentially someone you could rely on if you owned a home together or had a child with him.

4. Equality

If you've ever felt less than or silenced in a relationship, it might be because your partner wasn't treating you as their equal. The cultural discrepancy between equality that's been around for thousands of years where women were unequal to men in every way, socially, economically, politically sexually, that's changing. Now women want to be seen as equals to men and not have to compete with men for dominance.

5. Awareness

It's okay to want to influence (not change) your partner. In fact, relationships are more successful when men allow themselves to be influenced by their partners. The majority of women already do this according to research, but it's not the same for men. Being open to being influenced means the man shows awareness of his partner's emotions and needs, and responds to them.

6. Emotional Presence

That means someone who stays focused on the talker — rather than looking at their cell phone or other distractions — but this goes both ways. A woman should be emotionally present while her significant other is talking, and she should expect him to do the same in return. But being present also includes being responsive. Meaning when someone texts or calls their partner, the other person should respond as soon as possible, or let them know if it's going to be awhile before they can respond.

7. Curiosity (About Her!)

It's important that you feel like your partner is interested in you. Instead of judging a person about their actions and what they do, be curious about it. Wonder why they dress that way or why they act like this. However, she warns that you don't want a person who interviews or grills you in conversation.

8. Protectiveness

This one is non-negotiable. Women want to be with someone who they feel safe with at all times. They want to say 'With you I feel safe. I don't have to be defensive. I know that when I'm around you, I'm going to be okay.

9. Acceptance

If your man is trying to change you, then he isn't the man for you. Ladies should be looking for a man who isn't assessing them and constantly trying to upgrade them or improve them. We tell our lady friend when you feel judged by the guy, export him to the door or leave yourself. When someone criticizes or judges you, they're saying you're not okay as you are, you have to change and then I'll accept you.

10. Assertiveness

You don't want someone who doesn't ask for what he wants. It's one of the most important things that allows a relationship to thrive well. And so many men can't do that. They don't feel like they can ask for anything, so they don't tell the woman they're dating that they'd like a back rub every now and then or a foot rub. Healthy couples tell each other what they need and what actions make them feel most loved and cared about.

That is it for this Monday’s post guys! I really hope you liked the read!

Goddess loves you all and will be back tomorrow with another banger,

xxxxx