Techniques for better sex

Good morninggg lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another Saturday with your favorite Goddess, for today I will be sharing several techniques that will enhance and improve your sex ASAP! Be sure to read it up - and remember: as always, be sure to contribute some coffees to the Goddess if you enjoy the read!

We all love sex. And we all love when our partners are enjoying the sex as much as we do.

If you want to achieve this goal, you’ll need to define what making love is to you. How will you know it when you’re having sex vs making love? What’s missing when you feel like you’re just having sex?

While you don’t have to use all of these love making techniques all the time, proactively focusing on these aspects can lead to deep passionate love making.

1. Set The Scene

Imagine any of the great love making scenes from Hollywood. More often than not, the lighting is dimmed, the doors are locked and a sensual or sexy song is playing in the background. It doesn’t matter that many of those things are edited into the film after the initial filming.

Make sure your space is warm, clean and inviting. Change the sheets. Burn a scented candle. Clean up a little beforehand so that the scene you’re making would be fitting in a movie.

This won’t be hard to do if your bedroom is a quiet sanctuary. On the other hand, it might be harder to do with little ones running around or roommates in the house. Consider hiring a babysitter or even renting a hotel room for the night when you want to make love. Many hotels offer romantic packages too!

2. Express Your Love

Sometimes, when you make love, it’s not because it’s well thought out. Instead, it’s because you’re overwhelmed by the intensity of your feelings. This can happen if you’re talking about how much you love each other or have witnessed an emotional situation such as a wedding. Sometimes you can’t help but show your love in response to a thoughtful and caring action by your man.

You can replicate this by taking the time to show and tell your man how much you love him. Make sure you’ve got plenty of time and you won’t be interrupted. Perhaps plan a romantic dinner in your favorite restaurant or plan a meal to be waiting for him when he gets home after work. After all, it’s hard not to feel the emotion after a romantic date.

Your expressions of devotion shouldn’t stop once sex begins, either. Tell him you love him during the act. It will make everything feel that much more intense. Of course, if you’ve only been dating a little while, you might want to hold off on those three little words. But you can still express how important he is to you.

As long as everything you do is done with love, it matters less what specific techniques you use between the sheets.

3. Take Your Time

If you’re in a rush, you’ll probably be disappointed when you want to make love but wind up falling short. You’ve got to slow things down to make love. I literally mean to slow love making and taking more time to get to the final event.

Dedicating time to foreplay is a great way to learn how to make love. Plus, it helps ensure you’ll orgasm, a concern than many of my lady readers share. Take as much time as you need to. Trace your fingers across every inch of his skin girls. Memorize the way he smells, tastes and feels. Slow your breathing.

4. Stay In The Moment

For many people, their overactive minds take them out of the moment, which isn’t what you want when you’re learning how to make love. You can help yourself stay in the moment with a few practices, which should come easily if you’ve ever participated in guided meditation or tried your hand at Tantric sex.

Whenever you recognize your mind is wandering, focus on the pleasure you’ve giving or receiving. Notice how your head, your arms and hands, your legs and feet and your core feels.

Ladies, focus on your breathing and his. If it helps, you can breathe in tandem or imagine yourself inhaling his breath and him doing the same with the breath you exhale. Imagine that breath as energy moving through your body to ground yourself.

For some people, it helps to notice the stimulation of each sense. For instance, moaning can help to keep your auditory sense enthralled. Or you may need to switch positions to get your head back in the game. There’s a lot of different advice because no single thing works for every woman.

These practices are part of what is known as mindfulness.

5. Incorporate Your Bodies

Many women know what it’s like to have sex with someone who views them as nothing more than a warm, wet hole. This is pretty much the opposite of making love. So if you want to make love, do the opposite. Think beyond genitals. Incorporate your whole body — and his, too.

Lavish attention from his head to his toes. Kiss him all over. Caress your hands across the skin of his chest, arms, back, and legs. Try to connect as much of your bodies as possible.

6. Tantra

Some of the advice I’re already provided borders on tantric sex, a philosophy with roots in ancient India. Tantric sex is, in some ways, more purposeful, and this can help you feel more like you’re making love than just having sex. Tantric sex focuses on exchanging energy with your partner, which sounds a lot like intimate love making to us!

Tantra emphasizes things such as breathing in sync and making eye contact, which you can work on with your partner. You might also consider an experienced teacher to help you master the art of tantric sex. Maybe a certain Goddess can help guys? :))))

7. Cum Together

Now, it’s not necessarily easy or possible for you and your man to orgasm at the same time, but doing so will certainly make you feel like you’re making love as opposed to just having sex. There are a few steps you can take to make this easier.

For starters, know how long it takes you to get off and what you need to do. If it typically takes you much longer to get to the point of no return than it does your man, starting with oral sex or manual stimulation might be necessary.

If you’re able to follow the Goddess advice to become multi-orgasmic, you might be able to control when you cum to share the moment with your man. Additionally, consider edging, where you bring yourself just to the edge of orgasm but back off, to facilitate an explosive orgasm when you want it.

8. CUDDLE!

For many people, what happens after sex is just as important as what happens during. If one or both of you rush off immediately, it won’t feel like an emotionally intimate event. Plus, oxytocin is released during orgasm , so now is the time to bask in it. You might recall that oxytocin is the cuddle hormone that encourages bonding.

Set aside enough time to touch and cuddle after sex. This can make the transition from sexy times to real life less jarring, too. Ladies, maybe take a nap with your man after love making and wake up feeling satisfied and loved.

That is ittt for today’s post guys and gals! I hope you enjoyed the read!

Goddess loves you all - now go out and enjoy your Saturday!!!!

xxx