Super sexy date ideas
Hello fellow readers of the Goddess bloggg and welcome to this lovely Tuesday that is about to become as lovely as possible thanks to your one and only Goddess! For today’s post, I will be sharing several super sexy date ideas for you long-term-relationship guys and gals! I have to say that after some period of time in a relationship, dates start becoming quite mundane and dull, so why not take a look at today’s list of ideas in order to spice up your dates with your partner? And remember, all that this Goddess desires are some coffees for her trouble! Deal? Deal! :)))
There’s a lot to be said for the familiarity of a long-term relationship. It’s great to have someone you can rely on; someone you can let down the artifice with and just be. However, unfamiliarity and artifice are two major factors for sexual attraction. Human beings like variety and crave newness — two things that can feel hard to come by in a long-term relationship.
That’s not say that everyone in an LTR is doomed forever to a lackluster sex life — in fact, a new study just proved that's not the case. It just means long-term couples have to put in effort at recreating that artifice and newness in relationships. For some couples, that might mean opening things up and being “monogamish” or even polyamorous. But plenty of couples are committed to monogamy and are looking for ways to bring some newness back, even with one partner who has been around for a long time. That’s where sexy date nights come in. I don’t know about you, but I think sexy dates nights definitely fall under the “exciting” category. But everyone has their limits for how exciting they want their dates to be — and how much “sex” they want in a sexy date. With that in mind, here are eight sexy date ideas in ascending order, starting with very low key and ending in hot and heavy.
1. Take A Dance Class
Dancing is a classic way to get close to your partner, no matter how long you’ve been together. Pick a type of dance that you don’t know how to do yet and take a class. Bonus for traditionally sexy dances like salsa or tango.
2. Go To A Burlesque Show
Burlesque has made a major comeback in the past 10 years, and for a good reason. It’s sexy without being too explicit, funny, and body positive. Find a burlesque show or cabaret in your area, get dressed up, and go enjoy some sexy, fun dancing.
3. Erotic Storytelling Event
Live erotic storytelling may be more of a bit city thing (or even just a West Coast thing) but if you can’t find a live event nearby, you could always have your own private show with the Bawdy Storytelling podcast. Bawdy Storytelling is real people telling real, unscripted sex stories. Listen together at home or get even more creative and get dressed up, go in public somewhere, and listen on headphones.
4. Local Makeout Spot
One of the fun things about being a new couple is finding places to get it on. Act like a teenager and head to a local make out spot. If you choose to do more than make out, I won’t tell anyone.
5. Sex Shop Trip
Curious about sex toys? Or maybe just want to update your current collection? Take a date to your local sex shop and pick out something fun that you can both enjoy.
6. Get A Room - Literally!
There’s nothing like a night in a hotel to encourage sexy fun! Pick a hotel in your area and commit to spending the night focusing on each other’s pleasure. It’s also a great opportunity to try out new toys.
7. Down At A Club
Remember what it felt like to dance with someone new at a club when you were single? Recreate that scene with your partner. You don’t have to pretend like you don’t know each other, but it certainly doesn’t hurt!
8. Sex Party
Finally, for couples that are feeling particularly adventurous, check out a sex party in your area. You don’t have to have sex with other people if you don’t want to — although obviously that’s an option. It’s totally cool (and recommended) to go to your first sex party to watch and mess around only with each other. A good party will have clear rules about consent and accepting “no,” so don’t worry about hurting anyone’s feelings.
Ultimately you and your partner get to decide what "sexy" means to you. Take this list as a jump off point for getting a little bit of that unfamiliarity back in your love life.
That is it for today’s post guys! Really hope you liked it!
Goddess wishes you a warm day ahead,
xxxx
