Sugar Baby Guide: How to be good in bed!
Goooooooood morning lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to this beautiful Wednesday that is bound to become even better thanks to your one and only Goddess!
For today, I decided to write a nice little guide for any aspiring Sugar Baby out there - the guide can be used by ordinary girls out there too! - in order to become a Goddess in bed for your partner!
Sugar Babies nowadays seem to only care about their spoiling, which is very wrong in my humble opinion - Sugar dating is about giving as much as receiving, and if you have a nice Sugar Daddy who is spoiling you, it is only right that you return the favor! And what better way than to treat him to a Goddess-like sex experience? :)))
Without any further ado, here is the Guide on how to become a Goddess in bed - by your favorite Goddess! :)
Being a great lover can be one of the many ways that you show love and respect to your partner.
Plus, being great in bed can also be good for your health! Having pleasurable sex has lots of health benefits for women, including reducing stress, boosting your immune system, lowering your blood pressure, and even improving brain function!
Here are some great tips to help boost your sexual confidence and learn how to be good in bed.
1. Make The First Move
Lots of people are attracted to partners who make the first move in the bedroom. When you initiate the first step, your partner will see that as demonstrating confidence and asserting that you go after what you want.
Making the first move also signals to your partner that you are interested in them, which can increase their arousal too. Girls - just go for it! Take the initiative. It is sexy.
2. Set The Mood
Humans are sensitive beings. Most of us can’t go from fully clothed to penetrative sex without some preliminary arousal activities. That’s where foreplay comes in! Foreplay is a great way for you and your partner to increase your sex drive and increase excitement and desire.
Foreplay can include any activity that leads up to sexual intercourse:
Whispering your desires to your partner
Kissing on the mouth or over their body
Massaging different areas of their body
Slowly taking your clothes off in front of your partner
Fingering or handjobs
Oral sex
Masturbation can also be foreplay. Like other sexual activities, masturbation can help boost your mood, increase your libido, and help make you feel good in your own body, which leads to sexual confidence.
There’s no right or wrong way to do foreplay. As long as whatever you’re doing is consensual and sexually stimulating for both of you, go for it!
3. Try Different Positions
While there is something to be said for sticking with what works, trying the same position every time can get monotonous for you and your partner. Explore different positions, taking inspiration from porn, erotica, or the Kama Sutra.
Trying different positions can also help keep the passion alive if you’ve been with your partner for a while, or if you are role playing. The partner on top is in a more dominant position, and being underneath or behind can be more submissive.
4. Moan
Being vocal during sex with moans, sighs, grunts, or whatever else comes out of your mouth in moments of pleasure can help reaffirm to your partner that you’re enjoying what’s happening. Plus, being loud during sex can help you express yourself and might even increase your pleasure.
5. Let Him See
When it comes to sexual confidence, it’s great to be able to put it all out there. Whether it’s letting your partner watch you touch yourself, or keeping the lights on when you’re having sex, letting your partner see all of you can increase their arousal.
It helps if you know what’s going on down there too. Get to know your anatomy by touching yourself or looking at yourself in a mirror. You might have to look closer, but women’s sexual organs become erect with arousal too!
6. Relax And Be Confident
Learning how to be confident in bed involves being able to be in the moment without distraction. Sure, you may have spent some time getting yourself ready, but once you’re in bed, your focus should be on how you feel, not on how you look.
7. Tell Him How You Want It
Sexual confidence is built by knowing what you want and getting it. If there’s something you know you like that your partner isn’t doing, find a constructive way to offer feedback without criticizing their efforts. If you can, try showing them how you want it so they can follow your lead.
8. Keep It Spontaneous
If you want to surprise your partner in the bedroom, try suggesting that you watch porn together as a way of foreplay or introducing a new sex toy to mix things up. Making things fresh and spontaneous is a great way to keep it fun and interesting for both you and your partner.
And once you feel confident in the bedroom, you may be ready to get outside your comfort zone and try sex or foreplay elsewhere. Maybe you surprise your partner in the kitchen wearing nothing but an apron. Or perhaps you rub your hand across their pants under the table at a restaurant. Just like trying different positions, trying different locations can also be exciting.
9. Talk About Your Desires
Similarly to telling your Daddy how you like to experience sex, talking about your fantasies is another way to show your sexual confidence. Sex is as much a mental act as it is a physical one, so even if you don’t act out your fantasies, you can still be aroused by merely thinking or talking about them.
10. Take Control
Perhaps the most striking example of how to be more sexually confident is to take control in the bedroom. As long as you take control in a way that still respects your partner’s needs and desires, go for it!
Being great in bed is a two-way street. Learning how to talk to your partner about sex is one of the key recommendations by doctors on how to improve your sex life. Being confident is what makes someone great in bed, so practice these tips and don’t be shy.
And there you have it readers - the Guide of becoming a Goddess in bed is done and dusted!
I really hope that you learned a thing or two and are ready to utilize this newly found knowledge asap!
Goddess is out for the day, I will be back tomorrow with a new kinky post so be sure to check it out! :)
Enjoy this lovely Wednesday,
xoxoxo
