Should you write to your ex?
Gooooood afternoon lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to the last Saturday of the month of July that we have upon us, for today I will be sharing my thoughts on a very peculiar subject - a girl friend of mine has broken up her relationship with her boyfriend and she has been struggling a lot lately and she is in doubts whether or not to write to him these days - so I decided to give my take on the whole situation and share it with you guys as the last post of the week and of July, so be sure to read it all up - and remember, if you enjoy the read, drop some lovely cups of coffee for your Goddess along the way!
Should I write my ex?
Very hard question. And there is no simple answer to it. But the Goddess’s way to the question is the following:
Absolutely. Write everything you feel and everything you need to say to your ex. Go into as much detail as possible. There will be an overwhelming desire to hurry because the feelings you connect with while writing will be very intense but do not rush this letter. You want to slowly develop each idea you come across because I guarantee if you take your time you will write things that you never thought you would have. There literally should be at least 15 or 20 pages by the time you are through. Do not censor yourself in any way.
When you are completely finished, sit and read what you wrote. Each and every word. Imagine them reading it with you, or by themselves - your pick.
The last, and most crucial, part of this, take the note you have written from your soul, the one you just wrote and read again - and destroy it. Burn it, flush it mail it to Zimbabwe, eat it (no don't do that) put it in a blender with some spinach whatever, but make sure that there is no possible way for your ex to read it.
This writing was for you, not for the ex, and even if you had written and sent them a letter - that one would have really been for you too right?
It's ok, write like your arm is on fire, but do it for you - not for an ex.
That is ittttttttt for the very last post of this week and of July!
Be sure to come back on Monday to start off the month of August in the bestest way possible - with a brand new CHALLENGE on the way!
Have a great weekend lovely reading souls,
xxxxxxx
