Sexy ways to strenghten your relationship

Greetings fellow readers of the Goddess blog and welcome to another day, another Goddess post - and today I will be sharing several ways in which you guys can strenghten the bond between you and your partner - and of course, the ways will also be sexy as hell! So stick around for today’s post, enjoy the read and as always, remember to let this Goddess have some sips of coffee? :))

Having sex with your partner is an obvious way to feel close. But you can also make a point of doing lots of sexy little things outside the bedroom, in order to strengthen your bond. Not only will it keep the spark alive between the sheets, it'll also help you stay connected in the day-to-day.

Because let's face it... it's pretty common to take a long-term partner for granted, and let a boring routine trickle in, as time goes on. As you fall into a groove of seeing each other all the time — and getting up, going to work, and repeating the process all over again — it's easy to let romance fall by the wayside.

But actually, you can maintain your initial spark by paying more attention to how you interact throughout the day, as well as by adding more special moments into your lives.

Instead of stalking past each other on your way to the coffee pot each morning, for instance, you might stop for a quick kiss. And instead of only sending texts about who's up next to buy almond milk, you might slip in a sext or two.

It's all about making small adjustments to your relationship and how you interact, in order to keep things fun and loving for years to come — both inside, and outside, the bedroom!

1. Morning Kiss

Acknowledging each other in a sexy/sweet way when you first wake up — whether it's by kissing, cuddling, hugging, or all of the above — is a good habit to get into. Same goes for sending a quick "good morning" text. Both will start your day off on a good foot.

2. Sex Talk

If you don't already talk about your sex life, including fantasies and new positions you'd like to try, why not start peppering it into your everyday conversations? It's admittedly awkward to talk about sex at first, but the more you do it the easier it'll be — and your sex life will definitely benefit.

3. Reimagine Your First Date

Remember your first couple of dates? When you couldn't keep your hands off each other? Bring back that chemistry and take time to flirt with your partner, just like you did in the early days of your relationship.

You might even want to recreate what you did and where you went by eating the same meal, or watching the same movie. It can be a huge turn on, and it can also remind you why you fell in love in the first place.

4. Love Notes

If you have a busy schedule, you really, truly might not have time to be as loving as you'd like to be. And that's OK. There are so many quick things you can do to remind your partner how much you care, like simply leaving a sticky note on their bathroom mirror that says "I love you."

5. Walk!

Nothing beats holding hands and taking a quick stroll around the block, either in the morning, after dinner — or whenever you have a spare ten minutes. It's the perfect time to not only be a bit romantic, but to catch each other up on your lives. And that's a super important habit to have, if you want to stay feelin' close.

6. Touch Her

Another way to get flirty outside the bedroom is by making a point of touching each other more often. This might mean quick kisses, hugs, sexy arm grazes — whatever feels right. Again, it's something lots of couples do when they first meet, but forget about as time goes on. So why not bring it back?

7. Send Sexy Texts

I also recommend sending sexy texts or photos to playfully tease your partner outside the bedroom. Of course, if it's been just one date or so, you'll probably want to hold back until you're more comfortable around each other or established as a couple. Yet, if it's all good, go ahead and make your partner want you, bad.

8. Use More Eye Contact

When you're not in bed, maintain that eye contact. That means looking into each other's eyes when speaking, sharing breakfast or a meal, or whenever you feel the urge to connect and show appreciation. Plus, using eye contact means you're attracted to the other person, so it'll help you both remember just how into each other you are.

9. Watch Porn! :)))

Trust the Goddess guys - If you and your partner watch porn together, it might just help move things to the bedroom, or at the very least spark some good ideas for different positions, role play scenarios, or fetishes that you might be interested in trying. Just be sure your partner is on board before cracking open your laptop.

10. Give Compliments

Taking the time to show appreciation, and to express just how attractive you find your partner to be, can really be beneficial. Giving your partner compliments throughout the day not only makes them feel desired, but also strengthens your relationship. A simple, "That dress looks so hot on you," or "You were amazing last night," will do the trick.

If you're looking to keep that spark alive in the bedroom, make an effort in other areas, too. Because it's all connected!

That is it for today’s lenghty blog post guys!! Hope you enjoyed the read:)

Goddess wishes you all a wonderful day ahead,

xxxxx