Sexy Spring-Time Tips
Good morning lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another day and another blog post by your one and only Goddess, for today I will be sharing several tips in order to honor the most beautiful time period of the year - SPRING! Be sure to gobble up all of the information that I am about to share with you guys - and remember, if you enjoy the read, be sure to drop some coffees for your Goddess in order to show your appreciation!
Spring already here, and whether you’re planning on going on an influencer-inspired vacation or relaxing at home with a spring movie marathon, there are some things you should keep in mind if you’re planning on having sex— especially with a new partner.
In no particular order, here are some spicy spring sex tips from your Goddess!
1. Consent
If you’re having sex with a new partner, you haven’t had time to become attuned to their nonverbal cues for ‘I’m uncomfortable’ or ‘yes, I like that, keep going’ the way you might have with a long-term partner. This means that checking in before, during, and after sex, while always important, is extra important during one-time casual encounters.
2. Careful With Drugs And Alcohol
When it comes to mixing alcohol and other drugs with sex, my advice is: don’t, because legally, any alcohol consumption makes consent anything from automatically questionable to outright impossible. Better safe than sorry guys!
3. Sober Sex - Best Sex
I encourage people to think of all the ways in which sober sex allows for a more enjoyable experience, both physically and emotionally: communication is easier, you’re more likely to be mindful of risks and practice safe sex, and alcohol in particular can reduce arousal, vaginal lubrication, and make it harder to orgasm for your special lady partner.
Instead of hooking up with a cutie when one or both of you are drunk, if someone catches your eye while one or both of you is intoxicated, consider opting to swap phone numbers and meet up the next day. If you meet up and are still feeling attracted to, and comfortable with, them then you can talk about whether some serious sexytimes are in order and what those times will look like.
4. Plan Ahead
If you’re planning on having sex during spring break — or even if it’s a possibility — prepare in advance. Make sure that you have condoms beforehand, rather than, in the heat of the moment, starting to think about it then (the same goes for dental dams and lube, too). If you’re on a form of hormonal birth control like the pill, make sure your prescription is up-to-date, but keep in mind that while hormonal birth control helps prevent pregnancy, it doesn’t protect against STIs.
5. LUBE
Don’t underestimate the importance of using a lubricant, and I would also like to add that the Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health motto is “If you think you’ve lubed enough, lube some more.’’ ENOUGH SAID! :D
6. Sex On The Beach? Hmm…
Sex on the beach might be a hot idea, but really consider the risks before making it a reality. If sand is getting into the vagina or anus, there could be certain infections that could come of that, and certainly a lot of irritation. If you do have sex on the beach, take precautions and bring a blanket.
7. Have Fun
Sex is good, it’s healthy, it’s pleasurable. It’s something to be embraced and celebrated, absolutely. Talking about safe sex and consent isn’t meant to put a damper on it . It’s really that this will actually help someone thrive in their sexuality, and experience it more fully in a richer way — and not only have more sex, but also better and more satisfying sex, and healthier sex. The Goddess wants all of you people to be as empowered and healthy and safe as they can be, so that you can enjoy your sexuality and enjoy sex throughout the lifespan of the beautiful spring!
That is ittt for today’s post fellow Goddess readers! I really hope that you took in some valuable information from the post today!
Goddess will be back tomorrow with a new post, take care lovely ladies and gents,
xxxxx
