Phone sex
Good morning lovely readers of the Goddess Blogggg and welcome to the last post of this lovely week that we had, and you guys probably know by now that I always save the best for last and on this Saturday it is no exception as I will be sharing several tips about phone sex that you all should take note of because frankly speaking - phone sex is awesome and should be practiced more and more! Stick around for today’s post, and dont forget to drop a couple of coffees if you enjoy the read! :)
Being in a long-distance relationship or even just away from your partner for any amount of time can be tough. Us Sugar Babies now that more than others! :D
Thankfully, we have phones and computers to help us keep in touch with the people we love — or even just the people we lust after. Most people will tell you that sexting is absolutely necessary if you want to keep your relationship hot until you get together again. Which is great advice, until you get a little self conscious and realize that sexting properly can be a little hard. Luckily, The Goddess will show you a couple of phone sex tips to get over your inhibitions and get a little dirty, long distance.
1. Relax
This is someone who, apparently, likes you enough to make a phone appointment with you while they’re spending a semester abroad in a magical, faraway country (or just from across town on a rainy night). So relax: This person digs you and wants to get turned on with you. You don’t have to be embarrassed about wanting to have phone sex.
2. Set The Mood
This is totally up to you, but try to set a mood for yourself. Put on a pair of underwear that makes you feel hot or lower the lights in your room. If you feel super hot and turned on in your sweatpants, so be it. But sometimes lighting a candle on putting on your hot PJs can help you ease into the conversation.
3. Ask Away
If you’re nervous about getting things going, toss the ball in their court. A really easy way to get started is telling them whatever you’re doing to yourself and ask them to do the same.
4. Sense Of Humour
It’s OK to take a breath and laugh about how awkward this is (if you feel like it is). In real life, if you were banging and the position was awkward or all of a sudden the dog walked in and made it weird, you would laugh with each other, right? The same goes for phone sex.
5. Touch Yourself
Basically, having phone sex is just masturbating with each other and talking about it. You should definitely get to work while you’re on the phone with each other, if anything because it will keep you turned on as the convo progresses. If you normally use a vibrator or other toy, break it out and tell them about it. Coming together while you’re far away from each other is super hot.
6. Dont Be Shy
Although calling genitals by their real name is totally acceptable, using some dirty words is much better for phone sex. “I am stimulating your clitoris with my tongue,” said in your best dweeb voice is not something someone wants to hear while they’re masturbating in their hotel room somewhere. Don’t be afraid - use all the words at your disposal.
7. Take Advantage Of Technology
Just think: Back in the day, people had to use a rotary phone to have long distance sex with them. Just because it’s called “phone sex” doesn’t mean you shouldn’t use the video technology at your disposal. Using FaceTime to mutually masturbate is a great idea, or you could connect via Skype with your laptop — if you set it up properly, you can get busy, hands-free.
8. Compliment!
Everyone likes a compliment! After you guys finish, congratulate yourselves. Tell your partner that that one move really worked. Like, really well. Hopefully, you’ll get some compliments in return to boost your self-esteem for next time. Once you pop your phone sex cherry, it gets much easier.
That’s it for this Saturday Goddess post lovely ladies and gents! I really hope you enjoyed the read and you will be open to more and more steamy phone sessions with your beau! :)
Goddess loves you all, I will be back on Monday with a short post from Turkeeyyyyy! :D
Have a wonderful weekend, peace and love to all of you,
xxxx
