Morning sex
Good morning lovely readers of the Goddess blog and welcome to another Saturday post by your one and only Goddess and for todayyy your Goddess has already finished her morning jogg - so I figured to write about the second favorite morning activity - sex! I really think that you guys will enjoy today’s read - after all, we are closing out the week here so it HAS to be a blast - so sit back, fasten your seatbelts, enjoy the read and get this Goddess some cups of coffee for her troubles will you? :)
Yes, the a.m. can lack certain erotic qualities—e-mail beckons from your phone, your breath isn't its most minty fresh, and the glare of sunlight might feel anything but seductive. Worst of all, you haven't had any coffee yet. Add in that some experts say women are more likely to reach orgasm later in the day, and morning sex doesn't seem to be anything worth losing sleep over. But for guys—and I should know because I am one—the exact opposite is true. You might even say we're always up for it!
Don't blame the Goddess. It just works out that your testosterone levels peak in the a.m. But here's a little secret: A woman's testosterone also peaks in the morning, and it controls sexual desire and satisfaction for you as much as for him. That means sex as the sun comes up could be the very best sex of the day.
If you're using one of the following excuses to avoid getting it on when you first wake up, here's how to kick your hesitation out of bed—and have some fun keeping yourself in it.
"Mornings are rushed."
To enjoy sunrise sex, you have to chill out. For women to reach full levels of arousal, they need to be relaxed. But many of my lady friends have told me that in the morning they're already thinking about their day, worrying about getting up and out.
To stay sensually focused, break the habit of checking your work e-mail on your phone while lying in bed. Reading the report that your insomniac coworker composed late the night before isn't going to light anyone's fire.
If you still feel too rushed to take time out, you may just have to trick yourself. After all, you set the alarm early so you can hit snooze once or twice. Why not do it for sex too?
"I don't feel sexy in the morning."
If your fears about bad odor or breath are killing the mood, I can attest that guys also have their share of self-consciousness about these things. There's no shame in keeping a tin of mints by the bed. Even a swig of water from a bottle on your nightstand can go a long way toward freshening up one's breath—moist mouths collect less bacteria. (It also might come in handy after an athletic romp.) Or, as long as you promise to hop right back in the sack, duck into the bathroom to brush your teeth or gargle mouthwash.
"I'm just not feeling it."
With the guys’ testosterone levels peaking in the early hours of the day, guys wake up ready to have the best (or at least the longest-lasting) sex of the day. Women don't wake up with the same degree of obvious arousal, but the good news is that your body's chemistry is actually primed for morning sex too. High levels of testosterone increase sexual desire, and amped up amounts of oxytocin post-sex make you want to bond.
To get in the mood, ladies just try asking your man to describe what's going on down there and what he might like to do about it. You may be surprised how a little sweet talk can turn you on. As a bonus, the extra closeness and trust can give couples a kick start to try more imaginative or intimidating positions instead of the usual routine ones.
But if you're the type who isn't alert until you've had your coffee, you might prefer positions that don't require much exertion. The can opener position, which is missionary with one leg bent upward, maybe even resting on his shoulder. This allows for close and deep penetration without too many gymnastics.
"It's too bright!"
Candlelight is sexy. Stark daylight is less so. But relationship experts say it's important, at some point in a committed twosome, to bare all. You want to build the kind of trust and acceptance with your partner that lets you feel body-confident in any kind of light. After all, you haven't really been naked in front of someone until you've been naked in the full glare of day.
But if you're still feeling a little shy, I suggest taking it slowly and adding just a bit of covering. If you're not ready to go for all-out exposure, keep the sheet on part of your body. Wrap a blanket around your legs. Or even welcome him under your tent of blankets. Sometimes you'll find that the sheets come off or the tent ends up on the floor. And there you are, in all of your morning glory.
That is it for this week’s posts guys! I really hope your Saturday got off to a fantastic start and you will all have a wonderful weekend ahead of you!
Goddess loves you all, catch you all on Monday!
xxxxx
