More morning sex, please

Good morning lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another day and another blog post by your one and only Goddess and for today I will be sharing my opinion into why you guys should be making more of an effort for having continuous morning sex! Stick around for today’s post, read it up - and as always, remember to get the Goddess some lovely cups of coffee along the way!

Yes, the a.m. can lack certain erotic qualities—e-mail beckons from your phone, your breath isn't its most minty fresh, and the glare of sunlight might feel anything but seductive. Worst of all, you haven't had any coffee yet. Add in that some experts say women are more likely to reach orgasm later in the day, and morning sex doesn't seem to be anything worth losing sleep over.

But here's a little secret: A woman's testosterone level peaks in the morning, same as you lovely gentleman out there - and it controls sexual desire and satisfaction for you as much as for her. That means sex as the sun comes up could be the very best sex of the day. If you're using one of the following excuses to avoid getting it on when you first wake up, here's how to kick your hesitation out of bed—and have some fun keeping yourself in it.

1. Relax

To enjoy sunrise sex, you have to chill out. For women to reach full levels of arousal, they need to be relaxed. But many women have told me that in the morning they're already thinking about their day, worrying about getting up and out. Break the habit of checking your work e-mail on your phone while lying in bed. Reading the report that your insomniac coworker composed late the night before isn't going to light anyone's fire. If you still feel too rushed to take time out, you may just have to trick yourself. After all, you set the alarm early so you can hit snooze once or twice. Why not do it for sex too?

2. Feel Sexy

If your fears about bad odor or breath are killing the mood, I can attest that guys also have their share of self-consciousness about these things. There's no shame in keeping a tin of mints by the bed. Even a swig of water from a bottle on your nightstand can go a long way toward freshening up one's breath—moist mouths collect less bacteria. (It also might come in handy after an athletic romp.) Or, as long as you promise to hop right back in the sack, duck into the bathroom to brush your teeth or gargle mouthwash. You could also skirt the breath issue by skipping kissing altogether. I recommend a basic cowgirl position with your Sugar Baby on top facing you guys. Or, if you're ready to rise and shine, let your Sugar Baby stand up and let you lovely gents take her from behind. To compensate for the lack of kissing: There's plenty of opportunity for you guys to whisper all sorts of sexy things into your Sugar Babys ear.

3. Sweet Talk

Women don't wake up with the same degree of obvious arousal, but the good news ladies is that our body's chemistry is actually primed for morning sex too. High levels of testosterone increase sexual desire, and amped up amounts of oxytocin post-sex make you want to bond. To get in the mood, try asking your man to describe what's going on down there and what he might like to do about it. You may be surprised how a little sweet talk can turn you on!

As a bonus, the oxytocin-induced extra closeness and trust can give couples a kick start to try more imaginative or intimidating positions instead of the usual routine ones. But if you're the type who isn't alert until you've had your coffee, you might prefer positions that don't require much exertion. I suggest the "can opener position," which is missionary with one leg bent upward, maybe even resting on his shoulder. This allows for close and deep penetration without too many gymnastics.

4. Cover Up

Candlelight is sexy. Stark daylight is less so. But relationship experts say it's important, at some point in a committed twosome, to bare all. You want to build the kind of trust and acceptance with your partner that lets you feel body-confident in any kind of light. After all, you haven't really been naked in front of someone until you've been naked in the full glare of day.

But if you're still feeling a little shy, I suggest taking it slowly and adding just a bit of covering. If you're not ready to go for all-out exposure, keep the sheet on part of your body ladies. Wrap a blanket around your legs. Or even welcome him under your tent of blankets. Sometimes you'll find that the sheets come off or the tent ends up on the floor. And there you are, in all of your morning glory. :))

That is ittt for today’s post guys! I wish you all a tremendous Thursday ahead of you, the Goddess will be back tomorrow for some more content,

xxxxxxx

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