Moaning sex will turn you on more

Gooooooooood afternoon lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to this beautiful Monday in the company of your favorite Goddess!

Today marks the last 7 days of the Summer Challenge - plenty of time to get involved by getting yourself atleast one day with your Goddess guaranteed - so I decided to spice things up by writing a post in which I will explain why moaning during sex will turn both you and your partner on a ton!

Stick around for today’s post and allow me to know your thoughts about it in the comment section bellow!

We're probably all familiar with what moaning during sex sounds like - whether from an overly-dramatic performance in porn or a film, or actual real life. But there are so many questions when it comes to moaning: why do we do it (or not), why do some people fake them, and why does it just sound so damn sexy (for some)?

The Goddess is here to share the wisdom! :))))

1. Why Do We Moan During Sex?

While moaning can be a turn on or a turn off for different people, there are a number of different reasons as to why we actually do it. Is it genuine, or are we faking it (sometimes without really realising)?

Well, it's a mixture of the two. For some people, they are more naturally vocal during sex, but unfortunately too many people are informed about sex through porn, and so think that it's normal to make noise during sex - even if that means they have to fake it!

However, don't feel that you have to be overly dramatic with noises during sex if it isn't coming naturally, just because you've seen it in porn.

Porn is a very unrealistic portrayal of sex overall. So, if someone’s sex education has been through porn, then they may believe that that is what their partner wants and how they 'should' be behaving during sex - even if it feels completely unnatural to them. So don't feel pressure to do something that doesn't feel right!

2. Can Moaning Make Sex More Pleasurable?

As well as indicating that you're, ya know, having a good time, moaning itself can actually make sex more pleasurable - or rather, stifling any noise can make sex less pleasurable. It's a natural release.

For people for whom sounds are a trigger (probably the same people who like dirty talk), then moaning can heighten sexual arousal. It can also probably make a person more attentive to and tune in more to their body’s sensations, which also amplifies arousal, which all makes sex more pleasurable.

3. So - How Can You Improve Your Moans?

Of course, there's no right or wrong way to moan, but there are ways of helping yourself to relax and let go more during sex - noises included.

Sex is all about letting go. And if letting go and moaning loudly heightens your pleasure and means you have a better experience… go for it!

And if you don't feel ready yet to go full volume with a partner, you can always practise by yourself. You might try letting go when you are masturbating, but don’t force moaning if it’s not natural or comfortable for you. Sex is not a performance! It’s about pleasure - and if not moaning is more pleasurable for you then that’s what you should do.

I suggests to experiment with letting your guard down and settling into vulnerability - so try taking this in stages, at a pace you feel comfortable with, rather than diving in the deep end straight away.

And there you have it gentleman and ladies, the Monday post is done and dusted!

I hope all of you have a glorious week ahead,

Catch you all tomorrow! xxxx