Moaning makes sex better
Good afternoon lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another Saturday and another post to close out the week with your favorite Goddess writer, for todayyy I will be sharing my opinion with you guys about why I think that moaning and sex sounds in general make every sex experience way better!
Stick around for today’s post guys, I promise it will be a great one - and as always, do not forget to glance into the Genesis Challenge and make your contribution with a couple of cups of coffee! The prizes are well worth your time :))
Whether from porn, an R-rated movie, or some real-life experience, we all know what moaning during sex sounds like. But why is that sound such a turn-on? We asked the experts to find out.
Moaning during sex lets our partners know we’re enjoying ourselves — which makes everyone feel good, both because we want them to be happy, and because we want to know WE are doing something right to make them happy.
Moaning also has a practical use: it can help us guide our partners towards what we want them to do more of... or less of. An "ohhh!" can help us indicate we like a particular position, angle, speed, or depth. In this way, you can think of moaning as a great positive reinforcement tool for teaching our partner what we like.
However, moaning isn't always a sign that sex is going well — some straight women will try to fake a moan to stroke their partners’ egos, make their partners orgasm more quickly, or because they were bored. On the other hand, people of all genders who moan during sex are having better sex. So if you feel good, go ahead and vocalize it.
But what, exactly, makes a moan sexy? Honest Goddess advice: just do what feels natural. If your partner stimulates somewhere and you feel your throat tighten, don't be shy about letting it out. Trying to force moans may confuse your partner even if you aren't familiar with each other, but if you want to let them know they're doing a good job, even quiet noises and gasps can add to the mood.
The key to a truly great moan is not caring about how you sound, which is likely to take you out of the moment. I love hearing moans paired with whimpers, grunts, whines, curses, begging, crying out to higher powers... whatever feels right in the moment!
If you feel self-conscious about your moans, go ahead and practice! Try moaning on your exhales (you're remembering to breathe, right?), starting with a classic ‘oh’ sound and letting your voice go higher or lower in response to exciting sensations. Want a pro OHHHHH? Try recording a voice memo of yourself playing solo and listen back for the parts that feel the most sensual.
And trust me guys.. it is not just you that love to hear a moan. Us girls and Goddesses alike love hearing you guys moan as well! :)))
That is ittttt for today’s post guys! Hope you enjoyed the read!
The Goddess loves you all and will be back with you on Monday, take care!
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