Make your sex moans legendary
Goooooooood afternoon lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another day and another blog post by your one and only and favorite Goddess of course! Today I will be sharing my thoughts about moaning - moaning during sex can be VERY important, so I wanted to share with you guys my opinion and tips into how you can achieve a legendary moaning status that can make everyone shiver! Stick around for today’s post, enjoy the read and as always, remember to get the Goddess some nice coffees along the way!
Whether from porn, an R-rated movie, or some real-life experience, we all know what moaning during sex sounds like. But why is that sound such a turn-on?
Moaning during sex lets our partners know we’re enjoying ourselves — which makes everyone feel good, both because we want them to be happy, and because we want to know WE are doing something right to make them happy.
Moaning also has a practical use: it can help us guide our partners towards what we want them to do more of... or less of. An "ohhh!" can help us indicate we like a particular position, angle, speed, or depth. In this way, you can think of moaning as a great positive reinforcement tool for teaching our partner what we like.
However, moaning isn't always a sign that sex is going well — a recent study on sex moaning (or, as researchers called it, “copulatory vocalizations”) found that some straight women reported faking a moan to stroke their partners’ egos, make their partners orgasm more quickly, or because they were bored. On the other hand, another study found that people of all genders who moan during sex are having better sex. So if you feel good, go ahead and vocalize it.
But what, exactly, makes a moan sexy? Simple: try to do what feels natural. If your partner stimulates somewhere and you feel your throat tighten, don't be shy about letting it out. Trying to force moans may confuse your partner even if you aren't familiar with each other, but if you want to let them know they're doing a good job, even quiet noises and gasps can add to the mood.
The key to a truly great moan is not caring about how you sound, which is likely to take you out of the moment. I love hearing moans paired with whimpers, grunts, whines, curses, begging, crying out to higher powers... whatever feels right in the moment!
If you feel self-conscious about your moans, go ahead and practice! Try moaning on your exhales (you're remembering to breathe, right?), starting with a classic ‘oh’ sound and letting your voice go higher or lower in response to exciting sensations. Want a pro OHHHHH? Try recording a voice memo of yourself playing solo and listen back for the parts that feel the most sensual.
There you have it guys - nice, sweet and simple blog post about moaning!
Goddess wishes you all a wonderful day ahead, catch you all tomorrow,
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