Make a great first impression!

Goooooood afternoon lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another day and another blog post by your favorite Goddess!

Today I will be sharing several tips that a lot of you guys should stick to in order to make a killer of a first impression when meeting a girl! First impressions are one of the most important things that come to mind once you establish a connection with someone - so stick around for what the Goddess has to say in today’s post and remember to drop in some lovely coffees along the way if you enjoy the read!

I’ll be honest with you. Guys are pretty lucky. Women are far too forgiving when it comes to a guy’s first impression. Most of the time, men make fools of themselves in front of girls they like. But if you really want a chance with her, you’ll have to learn how to make a good first impression on a girl.

First impressions can sometimes be everything. Sure, some girls will give you the benefit of the doubt, but if you mess it up enough, you’ll never be able to recover. So if you’ve got your eye on someone special, learning how to make a good first impression on a girl will definitely help you out. Thankfully for you guys, the Goddess has some nifty tips to share that will ensure your first impression will be one to remember - for positive reasons of course! :D

1. Just Say HI

Men do all sorts of things to try to get a girl’s attention and they’re all unnecessary. Walking up to a girl and saying hi is the easiest way to get her attention. The thing you want to keep in mind, however, is whether or not she looks like she wants you to talk to her. Which means if she’s out with friends and surrounded by girls, she probably doesn’t want to be bothered. If she looks over at you a few times, then it’s okay.

2. Avoid Horrible Pick-Up Lines

Just don’t do this. As I said above, just saying hi does more for you than any pickup line ever could. So don’t do it. Bad pickup lines will definitely turn her off because they’re overused and she’ll think you use them on all girls.

3. Treat Her Like A Normal Person

Don’t act like she’s this creature you need to “win.” Even if she is your Sugar Baby or a Sugar Baby date - just treat her like a person. A great tip is to actually just treat her like a friend of yours already. If she sees how casual you are about the whole thing, she’ll be intrigued.

4. Don’t Brag

She really doesn’t care how expensive your car was or how strong you are. Girls really don’t want to hear about anything that makes you seem like you’re “above” other guys. It actually makes you sound like a douche. Just play it cool and even be a little mysterious.

5. Make Conversation About Her

Girls want to feel special. If you make her feel special, she’ll remember you and think of you in a positive way. So do that! Ask her questions about herself and make them important ones. The trick here is to do this without coming across as stalker-ish and creepy.

6. Confident - But Not Cocky

Confidence is sexy. Cockiness is a turnoff. Feel great about yourself but don’t exude arrogance that makes you seem like you’re better than everyone else.

7. Ask Away

Don’t ask the run of the mill questions about her job or where she goes to school. Ask her things about her beliefs and where she’d like to be in her career in 5 years. These deeper questions will not only make you sound very mature, they’ll help you get to know her on a more intimate level.

8. Keep It Light

Don’t talk about controversial topics right out of the gate. This will give off the impression that you’re a hothead who just likes to argue. Don’t focus on such negativity right away.

9. More Than Meets The Eye

If you walk up to a girl and tell her she’s beautiful, she’ll roll her eyes and turn away. Although it’s a nice gesture, it’s every guy’s go-to. We get bored of it and talking about our physical appearance makes us think that’s all you like.

Instead, compliment her cool t-shirt or awesome sneakers. If you learn about her hobbies, tell her how interesting they are. She’ll love hearing about her personality and choices more than her appearance.

10. Eye Contact

This is essential. If you look away from her, she’ll feel like you’re bored and uninterested. If you’re looking at her boobs, she’ll feel like you only want sex. In order to know how to make a good first impression on a girl, you have to know how to hold her eye contact while conversing.

11. No Phone

The worst thing you can do is pull out your phone mid-conversation and text someone or scroll through your social media feeds. It’s rude, disrespectful, and will immediately put her off. Keep that baby tucked away.

12. Find A Way To Connect

Connecting with a girl about something you two both love to do or an interest you share is crucial. You want her to remember you, right? She’ll remember someone who has something really cool in common with her. Just don’t lie about it.

13. Have A Sense Of Humor

But make sure to keep it clean. Don’t start making really sexual jokes right away. She’ll honestly just think you want to get in her pants and nothing more. Keep your humor light-hearted.

14. Talk About Experiences, Not Stuff

In order to learn how to make a good first impression, you have to learn how to talk about the things you’ve experienced and not the things you have. Boasting about your possessions makes you look shallow and immature.

Talking about the fun things you’ve done and the places you’ve been makes you seem adventurous and fun – both of which women tend to find attractive.

15. Be Yourself

As cheesy as this sounds, it’s really the best way to learn how to make a good first impression on a girl. She’ll sense the genuine side of you coming across and like it way more than some fabricating “cool” side. So just act normal. Don’t make it a big deal and you’ll make a much better impression.

Knowing how to make a good first impression on a girl is essential if you want a chance to date her. The above tips will help you show the best side of yourself so she’ll be dying to know more. Goddess guarantee! :D

And there you have it boys and girls - today’s post lengthy post is all done and finished!

I really hope you enjoyed the read lovely ladies and gents!

Goddess wishes you all a wonderful day ahead of you, catch you all tomorrow,

xxxx