How to pick up any girl in the club
Another Monday and another week begins with a brand new Goddess post dear ladies and gentleman on the Goddess blog - and for today, I will be writing down several clubbing tips for you guys that are a fool-proof hack that can help you get any girl that you like back to your appartment for some after-clubbing sexy time! I am dedicating today’s post to mr. wilkinc, I am really happy to have met such a nice guy like yourself and I hope to have many fun times with you in the future:) Remember guys, sit back, relax, enjoy the read - and get this Goddess some nice, steamy cups of coffee!
You will see just as many hot women on the streets as you will in clubs.
If you don’t believe me, just visit Belgrade (visit the Goddess while you are in Belgrade), Zagreb, Ljubljana, Berlin or Athens and go to outdoor cafes, malls, or just walk down the streets and you will know what I am talking about, but I am sure we’ve all been there and can agree that the sidewalks and day time venues are packed with hotties.
To truly be a Master of Seduction, you guys need to be “socially adaptable“ to meeting and attracting women in all environments and venue types. Now to play devil’s advocate you may say, you can only find hot women in clubs… Now let me ask you doubtful gentlemen a question… Don’t a lot of the hotties you see in clubs need to go out during the day to get ready, to eat, to buy clothes, to buy cosmetics, to put gas in their cars, run errands, and get cash for their girls night out?
We both know the answer to this and hence know that unless the girls in nightclubs are vampires, they DO go out during the day. This is why you need to learn how to capture the daytime market on top of the night club market.
But, if you are already in the club, then you might as well try your best right? Well have no fear, as the Goddess is sharing several tips on how to get that lovely hot chick back at your place!
1. At night clubs women expect to be approached and hit on
Women expect to socialize, mingle, seek romance.
Talk to everyone, be playful, and use “sexual state projected body language”.
Touch escalate in clubs, as it is okay within this type of domain.
Go up to women and talk, be spontaneous, be playful, be loud, dominate the conversation, dominate their frame of mind, come with superb and superior body language (girls love this, Goddesses too!) and pre opener value (social proof, own the guys in front of them, demo tribal leader traits, peacock) .
In this type of venue it is okay to put on the sexual, rebel, bad boy, playful alpha, touch escalating lover boy. In fact women go out to these places to “Find/Meet” a “LOVER” and they want to be approached by a sexually confident alpha male.
2. At night clubs there is a lot more competition from other men.
You must learn how to work a group. Learn how to own big ass, natural players.
In fact, the bigger and badder, the easier it is. It is so counterintuitive to what you guys seem to think, but massive field experience and experimentation will make you formulate a different opinion and that is good for us girls as well.
Remember in this tribe (club) you must be the “TRIBAL LEADER” and perceive the other guys just holding your drinks (women) while you go take a piss.
Remember…as the kid rock famous line states: “Move over Jack, Daddy’s Home!!!!!!!!!!”
3. At night clubs there is a lot more stimulation
There is a lot more stimulation like music, drinks, people making out, and girls taking pictures together.
So be louder, cooler, more playful and exciting than what the women are stimulated by currently.
You need to be more sexual than the next man. Own the place. Talk to everyone: big mafia guys, corporate guys, wannabe playa’s, fat chicks, ugly chicks, hotties, models, etc. Merge them, split them, play with them.
Just be a fun, playful social guy who doesn’t need to get laid.
Imagine you are already dating four super models. Do you care what some chick at a bar says to you? Use your camera, take pictures– A flash is like chick crack… it is the only thing that I have found that can successfully win in a battle between you and an Usher song that sucks all the hotties to the dance floor.
You be the stimulation, the disco ball, the centre of attention, as well as learning how to Blitzkrieg style body language and vocal projection and powerful body language to OWN THE WOMEN.
4. At night clubs, you have to open groups
A lot of women come in groups and packs of both men and women.
Learn how to own the guys and be cooler than them. Disengage the group and at the same time how to properly attract the woman you want using attraction material, in particular active disinterest and negs. Learn to convey your personality through stories with DHV spikes to the group, so you get the guys seeking rapport with you and the women chasing you.
5. At night clubs, everyone dresses nicer
You must come like you are important or of high status. You got your hands full of hot women, and you are just here because you are bored, or to play around and socialize. Remember calibrate your look style and “value” to the venue.
6. At night clubs, it’s social
Talk to girls. Have strong nonverbal sexual cues, and a identity conveying power sense of style that is unique and that “peacocks” to the women that you are the black sheep of the bunch. Girls love being social - even me, a Goddess loves when someone engages in some chit-chat. Use this as your advantage!
7. At night clubs, women love to be touched and love a man who is sexual
Touch escalate along a much “steeper” touch escalation curve. Yes touch, touch, touch… You are an alpha caveman and love women. Do not make any apologies for this in clubs, but do it in a non needy, tactful classy way.
Examples: use the trust test, hand massage technique, and role playing, like you are both a couple and put her arms around your neck.
8. At night clubs, women have low attention spans
Use Rapid Fire threads. You can go from open-touch-talk-close (time bridge or insta-move or bounce) in minutes, using fun, snappy, elastic-band effect based attraction threads.
9. At night clubs, there’s a lot of women in a small space
You an quickly merge sets of girls, split sets, move from one set to another, and easily use this to “FLASH” to other women adjacent to you that you are pre-selected and have “social proof”.
Use the density of girls to approach a ton of women in the shortest time possible with rapid-fire threads. It allows for re-engagement of women and with each re-engagement a gradual, yet steep touch escalation process. You can use female to female proximity to flash to other women, that you are the man to use as pawns, and to merge sets. Jealousy is a common theme for ladies, remember this!
10. At night clubs, you need to isolate the girl
A lot of social and situational contingencies can arise that will prevent you from isolating your girl, from building comfort with her, from insta-dating her, from time-bridging her, from qualifying her.
To isolate or instant date girls, you will need to learn how to master “wingmanship” and have a good wing to win the friends over, so you can now bounce the whole group, or qualify/comfort build with the woman you want, and if anything suggest a time-bridge.
If you want to pull the girl, you will need to find an occupant for her peer group or girl friends, so use your wingman as he is a “Pawn in the know”. Or merge sets and hook the girls up with guys in the near vicinity. Also pre plan and have openers and routines for interruptions and contingencies.
10 tips that can prove to be a life-changer guys - use them wisely and stay strong in the club-game!
That is it for today’s post guys! I really hope that you liked the read and it kicked off your week in the best way possible!
Goddess loves you all, will be back tomorrow for a new post,
xxxxx
