Hellooooo dear readers of the Goddess Bloggg, the Goddess took a day off yesterday which esentially means that today will be double the fun and double the joy for you, my beloved readers as I will be writing about several tips and ways that you guys might wanna implement in order to make ANY (yes.. you read that right) girl horny AF! Stick around for today’s post as it will be a very interesting and lengthy post (two days worth of a read!) so as always, remember to get this Goddess some lovely cups of coffee! :)
How to make a girl horny? How to make her want to give herself fully to you without making it awkward? How to hit the right spots and improve her sex drive?
If this is what you’ve been wondering about, you’re in the right place.
First of all, I’m going to tell you that women are complex beings. There are two aspects that you have to pay special attention to in order to understand how women function.
These are the mental and physical aspects. If a woman is not ready mentally, she will not be ready physically.
If a woman is not ready physically, it means she’s not ready mentally. The sooner you accept this, the better.
How to make a girl horny. You have to understand that a woman’s mind is a complex machine and to make her horny, you have to make a tremendous effort with what you DO and not in how you LOOK.
So, if you’ve forgotten to shave your beard, she won’t give a fuck if you’ve pushed the right buttons that will make her body scream with horniness.
Whatever you are doing, you have to pay attention to the smallest of details. This especially goes for foreplay. By this, I mean the details regarding your actions. If there is one sentence that you have to memorize from all of this, it would be: WOMEN REMEMBER EVERYTHING. Yes, they do.
They will remember if you downplayed them, if you didn’t support them or mistreated them in one way or another.Even if you forgot to thank them for something they’ve done for you, they will remember it. And all of this will influence their ABILITY TO BECOME HORNY.
The worst part is that you will not know that this is the case because a woman will never tell you.
She will bury it in her subconscious until she has digested or deleted it.
To avoid this, you have to maximize your current efforts so that you don’t fuck up anything. Because if you do, you’re doomed.
Here are several ways to overcome this mental-physical barrier and to make her horny in no time. Goddess approved!
1. Be A Gentleman
First and foremost, to get a girl horny, be a gentleman. You know that every girl wants to feel loved, appreciated, and treated like a lady.
If she’s not feeling appreciated, SHE WILL NOT GET HORNY. I know it’s kinda absurd, but it’s the truth. All of the romantic movies and old-fashioned romances have raised the standard, and I’m sorry, but you have to act accordingly; it’s time. In summary, to make a woman horny, you have to work hard to deserve it.
When someone mentions being a gentleman, the first thing that comes to your mind is probably opening the door for her, buying her a drink or two, treating her and her friends with respect, showing up on time, and so on. Yes, it’s all true.
But, there is also more to the concept of being a gentleman. Being a gentleman also means not talking about yourself too much, treating everyone with the same amount of respect (not just her and her friends), not being bored, etc.
Yes, if you’re bored, you will not make her horny. You have to make her interested in every single word that is coming out of your mouth, and that way, you’ll make her want more and more…
So, be careful that you’ve set up a base for making her aroused, and the base consists of the three following terms: RESPECT, APPRECIATION, BEING INTERESTING.
Remember them very well because you’ll need to. That’s how you turn on a girl.
2. Compliment Her
When talking about complimenting, you have to be very smart.
One thing you say wrong can screw up your whole relationship with this girl.
So, for starters, choose something neutral like: “I like your style!” She cannot take this the wrong way.
Or incorporate this compliment with the way she looks. The important thing is to acknowledge her effort in making herself beautiful for you.
On the other hand, don’t make a mistake and compliment her legs or her butt because no matter if your comment was made in good spirits, she can take it the wrong way.
3. Build Up Sexual Tension
After you’ve made sure that you have a base, the next step is to build up the sexual tension.
What is sexual tension? Well, it occurs when two people feel strong sexual desire, but they don’t engage in sexual activities (yet).
To make a woman horny, you HAVE TO build up the sexual tension.
There are many ways of doing so, and you can use your words, physical touch, and imagination.
But don’t overdo it! If you overdo it, you will not build up the sexual tension, but rather, aversion, and you’ll most certainly not arouse her.
The key is to build her up days or hours before the expected climax.
If you’re not living together, you can always send her dirty text messages that will make her wonder about your next move. Again, don’t overdo it. Do it subtly and with caution.
You don’t want her to interpret things differently from how you’ve imagined them.
If you’re living with her or seeing her regularly, try whispering in her ear, gently touching her elbow, then slowly moving to her lips, and you know the rest. The thing you have to pay attention to is how you do it.
4. Foreplay Is Your Biggest Asset
Foreplay is never to be skipped. It’s the essential start of every intercourse.
It’s the core of turning a girl on. Take things slowly, and work your way to the main event.
You cannot simply take her and start having sex with her. You have to easily warm her up until she fires up like a lightbulb. After you’ve done this part, the real foreplay starts to take action.
With that being said, there is only one thing left to emphasize—be creative with your tongue and hands in combo with certain of her body parts.
5. Tease
You probably remember the time when you were a boy, and you thought the only way to show a girl affection was by teasing her. Guess what?
You were right! From an early age, men use these teasing tactics to subtly show that they are interested and to get her attention of course.
The only difference is that over the years, the teasing tactics improve, and if you know how to implement them, they will work like a charm on any woman.
Whether they admit it or not, women WANT TO be teased and paid attention to.
They want to feel special and to be the chosen one. To arouse her, you have to tease her in every single way possible. A woman’s body is like a machine, and you have to push the right buttons for it to start giving you what you want.
6. Dominate
Let’s face it. Who would want a wimp by their side? Show that you’re dominant, that no one can mess with you, both in the bedroom and in real life.
When you’re with your girl, keep your promises, and always stick to what you believe.
Show dominance by staying true to yourself and not by letting others’ influence lead you astray.
In the bedroom, hold her down and have your way with her. Every woman likes a bit of force tangled with passion. So, rip her clothes off, and throw her on the bed. Do whatever you want to her, she won’t object.
Women love men who take control, but they are not submissive to them.
7. Be Patient - But Not Too Patient
In all of these stages, you have to find the balance. You have to be patient because she will feel like you’re rushing things. But don’t be too patient either because you will kill her will to do anything with you. The key is to listen to her body and what she is saying to you.
A lot of guys don’t respect this, so they end up making one mistake after another.
Pay attention to her body language and gestures, and you’ll know what you have to do next.
If she starts making weird faces like she’s not comfortable enough, you should pause and ask her about it if necessary.
But don’t ask her: What’s wrong? Instead, you should ask: What’s on your mind?
If you mention the word WRONG, she will instantly start thinking that there‘s something wrong with her, and if she does, you’re screwed.
When you ask her what is on her mind, she will feel like you care about her, and you want her to feel comfortable while doing anything with you.
And when she says what’s on her mind, you can say a word or two, and then continue with what you were doing.
However, if she’s giving you signals that she’s ready, do not immediately stop your actions. Instead, make a slow transition to the real deal.
If your transition is too sudden, she might turn off and all of your efforts so far will be in vain. Make her want every piece of you, but give those pieces in a carefully devised manner.
And I promise you - any girl (or Goddess) that you desire will be yours - served up in a nice, silver platter.. or bed. :)))
That is it for today’s post guysss! I really hope you liked the read.
Goddess loves you all, I will catch up with you guys tomorrow
xxxxx