How to have an awesome virtual sex?
Goooooood day lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to a new day and a new post by your favorite Goddessss, today I will be touching on a subject that was made popular by the quaranteen period of the COVID era that we thankfully put behind us - virtual or cyber sex. Needless to say, even now virtual sex has its upsides - but just how good can it be?
Well stick around with the Goddess in order to see what the secrets to a good session of virtual sex are!
Cyber sex has been around since the beginning of the internet, but the technology of today has made it much more prevalent. From sexting to FaceTime sessions, couples everywhere who can't be together physically are getting down virtually. But when you're new to virtual sex, it can seem intimidating or even embarrassing. Keep reading for a complete guide to virtual sex, courtesy of your favorite Goddess!
1. Set Boundaries
Virtual sex helps us stay connected romantically because the visual and/or audio of your partner triggers the same neurons in your brain as if you were having sex with them in real life, which helps satisfy some of our needs for intimate connection. But if you're going to go down the virtual sex road with your partner, it's important to first set boundaries. After all, you don't want to be receiving X-Rated photos while trying to focus on a conference call.
Try talking to your partner beforehand about names you do (or don't) like being called, sex acts you are (and aren't) interested in fantasizing about, and the times of day and night you're open to receiving explicit photographs. Remember that safety is the foundation for great in-person sexual experiences, as well as great virtual ones.
2. Choose Your Medium
These days there are plenty of options for virtual sex, from texting and video calls to good old-fashioned phone sex. They all come with their own set of advantages, so it's important to choose a medium that will make you most comfortable. I love the idea of phone sex versus video sex because I think it can feel less intimidating and it leaves more to the imagination. Oftentimes talking on the phone will encourage you to open up in new ways, as you won't be distracted by trying to interpret your partner's body language or facial expressions. And remember guys: you are all just a Goddess Club away to having access to the Goddess’ Whatsapp! :)))
3. Set The Mood
Having virtual intimacy can be a great opportunity for you to hone in on creating a space of sensuality, which will continue to support you even after your virtual sensual journey has ended. Try setting up your space for minimal distractions by shutting down any devices you aren't using and clearing up any clutter.
But don't forget that before the camera and the action comes the lights. For video sex, lighting is one of the most important things so that you can feel your best and really get into the moment. Play around with the lighting and angles before you get on the video with your partner and consider getting a tripod or a stand that can hold your phone or tablet, so that you can use both hands to enjoy yourself.
4. Take It Easy
Even in the digital world, good things take time. Believe it or not, foreplay counts, even when sexting. Easing into the act can help create a more intense experience for all parties.
Anticipation is the key to heightened pleasure. I reccomend texting sound clips of sexy sounds, recording an audio clip of yourself masturbating, or sending a voice text telling your partner exactly what you want as ways to build excitement leading up to your virtual escapade.
Once a video session begins, try doing a slow reveal of body parts as a means of foreplay. This is an opportunity to get creative and can be incredibly sensual and exciting if you're willing to experiment.
5. Bring Reinforcements
In the absence of a physical partner, consider utilizing some extras, like lingerie or toys, to aid in the endeavor. Feeling sexy translates into being sexy. Wear clothes that allow you to unleash your sensuality.
6. Communication Is Key
Because you're not physically with each other, a satisfying virtual tryst depends heavily on communication. When talking dirty, use compelling language and be as detailed and descriptive as possible so that your partner can be totally immersed in the fantasy. Ask open-ended questions to allow your fantasy and your partner's fantasy to mesh into one.
7. Don’t Hang Up Too Soon!
There can't exactly be cuddling after virtual sex, which could be unsettling for those who usually like to snuggle up to the partner post-sex. Instead, try using the end of the call to discuss some of the high points of the experience or virtually tuck your partner into bed. Dropping the call too quickly after an orgasm or after revealing your sexual desires can feel incredibly jarring to the system. Allow yourself to bring presence to the fact that things are winding down.
And there you have it boys and girls, you have all the tools needed for an absolutely awesome virtual sex experience!
I hope all of you enjoyed the Goddess ramblings today. Have a glorious Tuesday and catch you all tomorrow!
xoxoox
