How to have a successful threesome + Christmas Challenge Update
Gooooood afternoon lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another day and another blog post by your favorite Goddess! Today I will be sharing several pointers that all of you guys and gals should memorize if you are thinking about having a threesome - threesomes can be something really nice for all of you, so be sure to catch all of the tips that the Goddess will share today - but before we get into it, I wanted to share a quick update on how the Christmas Challenge is progressing!
As you guys know, on the 6th of December the Christmas Challenge started - and with it, loads of interesting prizes are to be won by many of you participants, especially the three lucky winners, who will receive:
The winner of the Christmas Challenge will receive a DIAMOND CLUB MEMBERSHIP - in other words, the winner will get to spend 30 days with the Goddess in 2023 (doesnt have to be 30 days at once.. it can be 10 x 3 days etc) FOR FREE!
The second prize of the Christmas Challenge - TWO WEEKEND GETAWAYS WITH THE GODDESS FREE OF CHARGE!
Third prize - A WEEKEND GETAWAY WITH THE GODDESS, FREE OF CHARGE!
As of today, the 14th of December, I am happy to say that 12 Entry Tickets have been purchased, meaning that only 38 remain!
Be sure to grab your Entry Ticket - or several for that matter - before the Challenge ends on December the 26th!
The Entry Tickets purchased so far have been quite the international endeavour - we have lucky participants from the USA, France, Malta, Sweden.. 12 days to go so be sure to jump in the action dear fans and lovers!
Without any further ado, let’s dig into today’s post now!
A threesome, also known as a threeway or a ménage à trois, is any sexual activity involving three consenting adults. This form of group sex can involve participants of any gender. In some cases, all three individuals are single. Other times, threesomes involve a couple adding a third party into their sex lives.
The Goddess has been participating in several threesomes throughout my sex ‘‘career’’, and I for one can share several things to have in mind if you are thinking about having one:
1. Set Your Intention
Take time to think about what you want to get out of the experience, especially if it’s your first threesome. Are you trying to fulfil a particular fantasy? Do you want to explore your own sexuality? Is something missing from your current sex life? Clarifying your desires will help you navigate the intricacies of a threesome.
2. Discuss
The idea of having a threesome might intimidate your partner at first or cause them to experience jealousy. Stay calm and explain the reasons why you are interested in having a threesome. Be sure that you are not using a threesome as a bandage for or distraction from an existing problem in the relationship. Adding another person to your sex life will only complicate any communication or sexual issues with your partner. Remember that your partner needs to make the decision for themselves—don’t try to convince them. If your partner is the one suggesting a threesome, make sure it’s something you are excited about as well. If it’s not, be honest and discuss other possibilities.
3. Finding The Right Person
Once you and your partner are on the same page, discuss potential lovers to introduce into the relationship. Perhaps you met an attractive stranger on an app date, or maybe you want to include your best friend. As long as you and your partner both feel a chemistry with the third person, you can take the next step by approaching them and extending an invitation. Keep your invitation fun and casual, but remember to be direct and clear.
4. Set Boundaries
After finding the right person for a threesome, the three of you should sit down to discuss boundaries and ground rules. Agree on which sex acts you all are comfortable performing and receiving. This includes anything from kissing to penetration to oral sex to BDSM play. Always make sure you have consent before engaging in any sexual activity. It’s important for all parties involved to discuss safe sex practices to avoid passing on any sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Decide whether or not you need to use condoms, gloves, or dental dams. Discuss with your partner if the third person is invited to sleep over or not. Once you’ve established boundaries and ground rules, set a date.
5. Get Comfy
Create the right mood for your threesome. Light some candles, share a bottle of wine, and listen to some sexy music. Get comfortable with each other by talking and flirting. Once the sexual encounter begins, try a few different positions until you find the right one that works for all three of you. Keep lube close by, and use it often. Consider introducing sex toys into your threesome. The right sex toy can add an exciting element to the encounter and ensure that everyone is being stimulated the way they want. Be sure to clean your sex toys before sharing them. Remember that if you are feeling uncomfortable at any point, you can stop the sexual encounter immediately.
6. Debriefing
After your threesome, be open with your sexual partners about what you enjoyed. Discussing the experience can help alleviate any jealousy or awkwardness. Once you and your partner are alone again, be honest about whether or not threesomes are something you want to make a regular part of your sex lives or if it was a one-time thing.
With the right partners and clear communication, a good threesome can be a way to explore your sexuality, reignite a connection with your long-term partner, and experience new forms of pleasure!
And that’s it for today’s post lovely readers!
I really hope you liked the effort that the Goddess put into today’s post and you are all the wiser about having a successful threesome! :)))
Goddess is out for the day, take care lovely ladies and gents, catch you all tomorrow
xxxxx
