How to get your partner to go down on you

Good morning lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another day and another post by yours truly, today I will be sharing several things for you guys to do if you are having trouble convincing your partner to give you a nice blowjob! Blowjobs are fun and should be a pivotal thing of any healthy relationship - but awkwardly enough, a lot of girls are quite hesitant in giving a blowjob to their partners. But never fear as the Goddess is here and today I will be sharing several things that you guys ought to do in order not to have any problems whatsoever while requesting head from your respective partner. Without any further ado, let’s dig right into it - and as always, remember to get this Goddess some lovely cups of coffee along the way!

Anyone who knows guys, and grew up with many guys as friends, knows from their time spent surrounded by them that all guys want a blowjob. It’s like that extra special thing they can get from a woman that makes them feel on top of the world. But you might not know how to ask for one or how to get a blowjob the right way.

Another thing you’ve probably learned, however, is that they have no idea how to make it happen. They think that by whipping out their man piece, the girl will just magically want to put it in her mouth.

Well, guys, it just doesn’t work like that.

Now, it’s not all girls that don’t like giving blowjobs. Some (Goddess included! :D) actually enjoy going down on their man and giving them a good time.

But it’s common for most girls to avoid it because they just don’t really enjoy it much. They don’t find it to be fun or rewarding in any way.

So here are some things that you guys might wanna do if you want to change the mindset of your partner and start receiving some blowjobs PRONTO!

1. Make It A Trade

Sadly, a lot of guys can be selfish in general. And a lot of them are also selfish in bed. They think it’s all about them and their orgasm. Whether it’s getting a blowjob or whether it’s skipping foreplay and going straight into sex, they just don’t understand that women need to get something in return.

It’s not all about you, guys. Sorry about your luck. But you will get a blowjob a lot easier if you understand this right off the bat.

Don’t just ask her to give you a blowjob if you won’t be doing anything in return. Make it sort of a trade deal.

You can use anything as a trade. Tell her you’ll take her out somewhere nice, or even go down on her – which is the best idea if you really want to know how to get a blow job. 

2. Be A Good Boy

This isn’t just in the bedroom. You have to behave outside of the bedroom in the relationship as a whole if you want your girl to give you a good blowjob… if any at all.

You see, for women, sex isn’t just about the physical part. We know you probably don’t quite get that, because it is for you. But girls really have a big emotional and mental component to sexual activity. They would probably be more likely to give a blowjob to a guy who isn’t as attractive, but he treats her right.

If she’s always mad at you, or thinks you’re being a bad boyfriend, there’s no way she’s going to reward you for it.

So be a great boyfriend/husband/friend with benefits/Sugar Daddy. Whatever it is you two have going on, be good.

3. Show Her It Can Be A Good Time

She probably doesn’t want to do it because it seems boring. Not only can it be boring, sometimes it can physically make her gag. Think about it. Wouldn’t you if you had something stuck in your mouth and even maybe down your throat?

Make her realize that blowjobs could be fun for her too. Get in a position where you can stimulate her at the same time, and in fact, make a game of it.

If she does something that feels great on you, show her just how great it is by making her feel the same. This will not only make it more interesting, but she’ll learn what you like best for the next time. It’s a win-win really.

4. Give And Receive

If you want to know how to get a blowjob, don’t ever forget this one. There is no way a girl will continue to go down on you if you can’t make her finish. This goes back to what we said earlier. Don’t be selfish! Women like pleasure too.

This doesn’t even have to be by you going down on her. You can pleasure her in a lot of different ways, so you should ask her what she likes. Ask her what parts of her body make her the most stimulated, and then follow her directions for getting her off.

If she’s going to give you a blowjob, the least you can do is work hard to make her finish.

5. Praise Her

If your girlfriend was a trooper and has given you one before, the best way to make her do it again is by talking about how amazing and fantastic it was.

By telling her how good she was at it, she’ll want to make you see her in that light again, and she’ll most likely go down on you.

Everyone wants to know that they make other people happy, especially women. If she knows that she is making you feel amazing by giving you a blowjob, she will be more willing to do it. And then thank her and show appreciation. Just don’t overkill it or she’ll suspect you’re lying just to get some.

6. Be Gentle

When she’s actually down on you, don’t be really rough – especially if she’s not into that or she’s not thrilled about it.

Be gentle with her and be patient. If she feels like you actually value the blowjob, she’ll be more likely to do it.

Not all women like rough sex. And when she is giving you a blowjob, she is in a very vulnerable position down there. Then again, so are you! So, if you are gentle with her, she will be gentle with you.

7. Be Sweet Outside The Bedroom

You can’t just be nice when the topic is about sex and expect her to give you what you want. You have to be sweet and giving to her in other aspects of the relationship. Take her out to a nice dinner, let her pick the movie, and just be a sweet person in general.

Put down the video games, get your nose out of your phone. Ask her how her day was and actually listen to her. Girls love that. And when you do that, then she’ll be more willing to do something nice for you.

8. Warn Her Before You Cum

This may or may not shock you, but not all girls like to swallow. Let’s face it – it doesn’t really taste very good. Sure, some might like it. But a lot of them don’t. So, don’t be mad at her if she doesn’t want you to finish in her mouth. Give her a big warning so she can pull off.

This ensures your girl will be down to get down again in the future. Nobody likes to be surprised, and this is especially true if she’s not the type to go down on you regularly.

So there you have it guys - now go and get that deserved BJ fast!

That is ittt for today’s post dear ladies and gentlemen - I really hope that you enjoyed the read!

Goddess is out for the day, I will be back tomorrow with a new post.

Take care and catch you all around,

xxx