How to build sexual tension!
Hello and good afternoon lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another blog post by your favorite sexy blogger, today I will be sharing some tips that a lot of you aspiring Sugar Daddies need to have in mind in order to build up that much needed sexual tension between yourself and your chosen one! Without much ado, let’s get into today’s intriguing post!
Building sexual tension is like the growing hunger that makes a three-course meal so enjoyable, and the build-up to the main meal is the appetizer, and I’m going to share with you 4 ways to savor the entire meal!
1. Build A Connection
One of the most important ways to build tension with a woman is by having a connection with her mind. If it’s not an undeniable sexual chemistry at first, then no fear, because we can help to create it with these few steps. By connecting with a woman on an intellectual as well as emotional level, we will make her feel good about you, which is our goal!
This may seem pretty basic to you, but women are in their heads a lot of the time, and by penetrating her thoughts, and being thoughtful, you can really begin to have an effect. Aside from the physical contact we have with people, our most important connection with others is an emotional and an intellectual one.
We can achieve this through sharing some witty jokes or talking about topics that you’re passionate about. It shows you have depth and a mind to go along with your body. Dirty jokes do work, too, in some capacity! Don’t get me wrong, I love a good crude joke! But being too jokey can take away from the emotional connection we are trying to create with someone.
We connect with the mind, so start there. Humor and compassion fall under this category and are sure-fire ways to start building that connection that leads to attraction and then tension. You basically want to show your best side, and this is one of the first steps to building that tension, but first you have to build that connection.
2. Leave Her Wanting More
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. And texting can enhance that tension with a few flirty texts, and leaving off with an “I can’t wait to see you ;)”
Having a strong text game is key to creating sexual tension with your woman of interest. Texting allows you to blush and squawk and squeal like no one is watching, and it allows you to have whatever reaction you naturally feel and if you do it right, you can make her want you.
The text is a very specific one to learn—if you do not already practice savvy texting. Complimenting someone over text message is a good place to begin, and when you sign off, leave her a little, “I’m excited to see you!” These few things go a long way in the relationship build up. After all, it’s all about textual satisfaction!
3. Flirt With Confidence
The third way to create tension is through flirting. Flirting requires some degree of comfort with your sexuality. Because if you are not, then your flirting may come off as strange and awkward.
Guilt surrounding sex is a negative aspect of our culture. Men and women are sexual beings and flirting is fun, so let go of whatever guilt you have pent up from your Sunday School days and explore.
Tension is the feeling of being pulled towards someone, but it is also experiencing resistance. It occurs when you and your girl interact and have a sexual desire to be with each other, but it is postponed or delayed or has yet to happen.
Tension is a thing that starts in the mind and spreads through the body. Now, if you have already done the horizontal mambo, because let’s face it, one night stands happen, these tips will work for you because the imagination already has a scene to recall. The goal of flirting is to create a sexual tension and if you can do that, you’ll be instantly attractive to her.
4. As Dua Lipa Says - LET’S GET PHYSICAL!
The fourth, but equally as important, way to build sexual tension is by being physically affectionate. I think physical affection is one of the best things about relationships, especially at first. Women respond to a welcomed touch, and it makes them feel good!
This kind of touching can include just running your fingers gently along her shoulder, arms, thigh, really anywhere. Tickling, hand holding, and tiny kisses that linger also go a long way. This kind of gentle, physical contact really adds to the growing desire between men and women. With physical affection, not only are we trying to build up attraction in the mind, but also we’re trying to build it in the body.
Remember to enjoy the tension, because that is the most exciting part of dating and getting to know someone. Tension is all about restrictions. I think that’s why teenagers have so much sexual pent up angst. Because instead of having to create restrictions on themselves, they have them imposed on them by parents and schools, who tell them what is and isn’t appropriate.
So, to conclude it all - get physical like a teenager! :D
That is it for this lovely Thursday post dear readers! The Goddess was a bit long today, but I hope you enjoyed the read nevertheless.
Have a great day lads and lassies, catch you all tomorrow,
xoxoxoxo
