How to become better in sex + Leaderboard

Hellooooo lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another day and another post by your favorite Goddessss! Today I will be sharing several tips for you guys that I believe will improve and enhance your performance in bed, so be sure to glue your eyes on the screen and read up what the Goddess has to say today! Also, I will be sharing the current Leaderboard for the Genesis Challenge, be sure to not miss out on that as well! We can start the show guys - last but not least, let the Goddess see some nice cups of coffee!

Who doesn’t want to be exceptional in bed? To have not just good sex, but to have great sex that completely satisfies your partner and yourself before, during, and after? Now, despite the hype, we all know that not all sex is good sex. The quality of intercourse varies with a number of factors, from mood to energy level to location. But striving to be better in bed — and improving your sex technique — is a noble pursuit. And a healthy sex life carries an impressive list of benefits for all parties involved. The better the sex, the more plentiful they are.

Never fear guys - the Goddess has a couple of tips to help you out along the way:

1. Use Your Mouth

No, not like that (trust me, we’ll get to that soon). We’re talking about using your words. Communication is key to any satisfying sexual encounter.

Be open with your partner about what you desire and prefer in bed. Either talk about it beforehand or use body language to guide your partner to what feels best. Remember, you can’t deliver them a good time if you don’t know what they’re craving, to begin with.

2. Now Really - Use Your Mouth

Or your hands. Or maybe your torso. Hell, you can even put your feet to work if that’s what gets your partner going. The point I’m trying to make is it’s important to diversify the sexual experience. Standard penetrative sex isn’t known for delivering sexual satisfaction to all parties. Research has confirmed that women typically require a variety of sexual stimulation to reach orgasm, like oral sex, so make sure to play around.

3. Out Of The Bedroom

Surveys suggest that people tend to have more sex when on vacation than when they are at home. Of course, not all of us enjoy the luxury of being able to travel whenever and wherever we want, especially with the current social climate. So start small. Get it on in the living room. Or even head into the shower together. Small shakeups in the routine can have a huge impact on your attitude towards sex.

4. No To Routine

Maybe you’re a creature of habit. Maybe you found a move you really like. Maybe there’s a sex position you typically gravitate towards. It’s good to celebrate the stuff you like. But try not to make that the only thing you do during sex. People crave novelty, especially in the context of a long-term relationship. Don’t let sex become monotonous. Make an effort to mix things up.

5. Embrace The Quickie

If you really want to make sure you’re getting a good share of sex, you might think about embracing the quickie. It allows you to enjoy sex and get on with your day in a timely fashion. You can always save the cuddly stuff for later. Think about employing the most convenient positions possible. Standing doggie is always a great option for folks on the go.

6. Different Orgasms

This sex tip is oft-overlooked by men. Guys tend to gravitate towards penile orgasms, though it is important to point out that other pleasure centers exist, and are located inside their bodies. The prostate is known to produce such intense orgasms it’s been dubbed “the male G-spot.” It can be accessed internally, through the anus, or externally, via the perineum. The more open-minded you are, the more pleasure you might enjoy.

7. Solo Play Together

We know; it’s hard to keep your hands to yourself when naked in bed with someone else. But masturbating side by side with a partner can be a lot of fun. “Mutual masturbation” can help educate you on all your partner’s hidden idiosyncrasies as they relate to sex, and vice versa. Keep an eye out for what gets them going, and keep it in mind for the next time you guys go at it.

8. Take Your Mind Off Orgasms?

It’s important to remember that sex is not a race towards orgasm. Positioning it that way takes away from the intimacy and intensity the experience can provide. Besides, putting too much pressure on orgasm alone can mess with your head. It takes you out of the moment and away from your partner, and that’s a perfect recipe for unsatisfactory sex. Try not to focus on the destination and just enjoy the ride.

9. Edging

…or just go for the orgasms. Orgasms feel good. Like, really good. This helps explain why we spend so much time chasing them. But delaying that gratification can really pay off in the end. Edging refers to a form of orgasm control whereby an individual decreases stimulation as they begin to approach orgasm. This allows you to enjoy a longer sex session with your partner and a stronger orgasm once you allow yourself that release.

10. Sex Tape

Watching other people have sex has become somewhat of a ritual actually.. On average, PornHub receives around 92 million visitors to the site per day. But why spend your time watching porn when you can be making it instead? For couples interested, it functions as a fun activity and a nice little ego boost. The thing is, keep your options open and discuss what might be fun. That’s the joy of sex with a long-term partner. Of course, before you go ahead with any plan, you’re going to need your partner’s explicit and enthusiastic consent.

That is it for today’s post guys! Hope you enjoyed the read! One more thing to do before I conclude the post for today.. The LEADERBOARD!

Leaderboard of the Genesis Challenge:

1. ericj222 - 20 coffees

2. slavey44 - 15 coffees

3. adamlazslo - 8 coffees

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Hope you enjoyed the read guys, the Goddess will be back tomorrow for some more content! Have a great day ahead of you,

xxxx