How to be a Dom Daddy

Goooooooooooood morning lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to the last post of the week by your favorite Goddess - since it is Saturday, I had to make an extra effort in order to satisfy the kinky apetites of you guys, my faithful readers - and boy oh boy, do I have a treat in store for you guys today!

I will be sharing my opinion on what are some nice things to have in mind if you desire to show your Dom side, my dear and lovely Sugar Daddies!

Even though I am a Goddess of sex and kink (self-proclaimed, yes, but verified by everyone who spent some time with me :D), I am more often than not submissive in bed - so it is precisely why it is extra important to pay attention to my pattern of thoughts in today’s blog post!!

Without further ado, let’s get right into it!

Many people enjoy introducing power dynamics into the bedroom, playing either a submissive or a dominant role to heighten their pleasure and explore new and unique sexual fantasies. If you want to try a dominant role in your sex life, here are a few tips to get you started with power play.

But first thing’s first - what is sexual dominance?

Sexual dominance is a sexual practice in which one partner (called the “dom”) holds power during a sexual encounter, guiding the experience for the submissive partner (called the “sub”). Both partners receive sexual pleasure and satisfaction from performing their role (whether dominant or submissive) during the sexual encounter. And since the Goddess is the sub, here are several Goddess tips on how you guys can become a sexy and knowledgeable Dom!

Being dominant encompasses a wide range of experiences, and you and your partner can explore any avenue of pleasure you prefer. Here are some standard practices that you can use in the bedroom to take charge:

1. Permission

Two key tensions at play during most dominant and submissive sexual experiences are permission and punishment. During this type of session, the sub must ask permission to perform certain activities—for instance, performing oral sex or orgasming—and when they act outside of the dominant partner’s rules, they receive a requisite punishment. When starting as the dom, consider setting up a few sexy rules (for instance, choosing the sex positions or what the sub is allowed to wear) and punishments. Common punishments include spanking, edging or chastity, and bondage.

2. Spanking

Erotic spanking is a type of impact play in which the dom uses their hands, a whip, paddle, or crop to spank parts of the sub’s body for consensual and mutual sexual pleasure. You can use spanking as foreplay before sexual intercourse or a kinky punishment during submission and domination play. Giving an erotic spanking can increase blood flow in the sub’s groin area and releases pleasurable chemicals in the brain, including endorphins and dopamine, to enhance sexual pleasure. The Goddess loves spanking btw! :)))

3. Dirty Talk

Using a particular language in the bedroom is a key part of dominant behavior in a D/s relationship. As a dom, you can command your sub to address you with respectful pronouns (like “sir” or my favorite, “Daddy”) to show that you’re in control. You can also use dirty talk to describe what you’re about to do to your sub or how you’d like them to be treating you.

4. Role Play

Role-playing scenarios can jumpstart the action of a D/s scenario because they offer easy roles for each person to slip into and help you distance yourself from the situation if you’re feeling a little stage fright. If you’re just starting, consider roleplay situations that already have a built-in power dynamic with both a dominant and submissive role—for instance, boss and employee, teacher and student, or doctor and patient.

5. The Outfit

D/s often incorporates specific outfits or attire that you can use during a scene. For instance, doms may wear leather outfits, suits, and boots or heels, while subs wear collars, leashes, or role-play costumes like maid outfits. Dressing the part can help you immerse yourself in your role and explore your dominant side.

6. Bondage

Bondage is a sexual practice in which the dominant person uses tools to restrain the sub during a sexual encounter. The most common restraints include rope, leather straps, bondage tape, ties, handcuffs, spreader bars, ball gags, blindfolds, and chains. These restraints are designed to restrict the sub’s senses or freedom of movement to place control in the dom’s hands and heighten mutual sexual stimulation.

And there you have it fellow Sugar Daddies - 6 tips in order to become a desireable Dom in absolutely no time at all!

That is it for today's lengthy post boys and girls! I really hope you guys enjoyed the read and appreciated the effort. I wish you all a delightful weekend ahead of you, catch you all on Monday to kick start the last week of May!

Goddess loves you all,

xoxoox