Hellooooooooooooo lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to this lovely Tuesday in the company of your favorite Goddess, for today I decided to share my thoughts onto why I believe that absolutely every single one of us should be loud - and proud of it! - when having sex! Moaning is awesome - and stick with me today to hear what I have to say on the subject! And yeah, you really should pay attention - because I am after all, an avid moaner :)))
Research has found that the more noise people make during sex, the less inhibited they are in the bedroom.
So, what does that actually mean?
Well, there is a direct correlation between increasing moans, lowering inhibitions and enhancing arousal. Plus, an authentic moan will naturally open our throats and deepen our breath, which can lead to more powerful orgasms.
Truly, it maximizes your power—and not "power" in an "it’s so empowering" type of way (although that is a part of it). Rather, I’m talking about how sound can intensify the event—whether partnered or solo—and your pleasure.
Additionally, vocalizing during sex can make a partnered experience more intimate because it can signal pleasure, which can then boost confidence in a partner's performance. Consider it positive reinforcement!
And what tips do I have to share with you guys about it?
Let's say you're now interested in making noise during sex, but nerves are still holding you back. To help you build the confidence to get louder, try practicing by taking deeper breaths when masturbating. Focus on the exhale, and try to play around with different levels of moans and breath.
The key is to find your own sex voice and avoid trying to mimic something you’ve seen in a movie or porn. If you’re not used to making noise, it’ll never feel authentic for you and might prevent you from even trying.
And if you really want to take things to the next level, you can also gamify the experience. Create a challenge where you and your partner agree to have a conversation (not inclusive of dirty talk) during sex instead of moaning or screaming.
You two can talk about any random thing so that you can be as loud as you want without bothering your roommates or neighbors with sex noises because they’ll just assume you two are having a regular chat. Then the person who gives in first and ends up moaning or screaming owes their partner 10 € or has to do their chores for the rest of the day.
Honestly, it feels like everyone wins in that scenario, am I right? :))
And that is itttt for today’s post lovely readers and fans!
I really hope you enjoyed the read are ready to be vocal as f**k in your next sex endeavour!
Goddess is out for the day, take care and catch you all next time lovely people!
xooxoxox