7 tips for improving dirty talk
Hellooo lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another day and another brand new post by your favorite Goddess, today I will be sharing 7 tips that I strongly think will improve your dirty talk skills drastically! Stick around for today’s post, I do believe that you will be enjoying it quite a lot - and as always, remember to get the Goddess some nice and lovely cups of coffee along the way!
Dirty talk is a sexual practice in which partners use words and sounds to increase arousal and mutual sexual pleasure. Dirty talk can include single sounds or words (like “yes,” “more,” or a moan), phrases that describe what’s happening, or more complex ideas that detail upcoming action or construct a fantasy. You can use dirty talk in many different settings: during foreplay or sexual intercourse, in solo masturbation sessions, or in long-distance relationships to foster intimacy and sexual wellness between partners. The sexual technique is a key component of BDSM culture, in which the dominant partner uses dirty talk to arouse and dominate the submissive partner.
Here are 7 tips that you can use in order to improve your dirty talk game:
1. Listen To Your Partner
People who enjoy dirty talk in their sex lives often have particular words and phrases that they prefer in the bedroom. These preferences can range from enjoying a specific word more than another or preferring a certain tone of talk (for example, a gentler style instead of a more intense one). Dirty talk can also offer additional insights into what your partner may enjoy exploring in the future. Take note if they mention a particular sex position or sex toy during their talk, and see if they want to try it out later.
2. Explore Different Tones
Even though dirty talk has a reputation for always being sultry, serious, and kinky, it can also be more innocent. You and your partner may find that you both enjoy a tone that’s cute or teasing, or a sillier style with lots of laughs. Try out different tones during sexual activities, or pay attention to what happens naturally when you’re with your partner and replicate the tone they enjoy.
3. Compliment Your Partner
If you can’t think of sexy things to say when talking dirty, simply make it a compliment. Telling your partner that you love the way they do something or complimenting a particular part of their body is a great way to make them feel good. You can also comment on your arousal levels as a type of compliment—for instance, telling them how aroused you feel or letting them know you love how their body looks when they’re aroused.
4. Erotica
If you’re drawing a blank when it comes to dirty talk, erotica can offer some useful inspiration. Erotica—or stories written about sex to arouse the reader—contains a wealth of ideas for talking about sex in the bedroom. Find a few stories that you like and see if you can implement some ideas in your dirty talk with your partner.
5. Talk Dirty Over Text
If you or your partner are interested in dirty talk but feel a little shy or nervous about how to start face-to-face, consider trying it out over text first. Sexual texting (or sexting) can offer a more relaxed environment for first-time dirty talkers because it puts distance between you and your partner, and you can take your time to come up with the best response. You can also spice up your sexts with sensual photos or audio messages.
6. Feedback
Getting feedback after talking dirty can help finetune your performance. After your session has winded down, consider asking your partner what they liked most or weren’t quite as into. This type of pillow talk is a great way to solicit tips for improving your sexual partner. Be courteous as you and your partner talk. If they have a few critiques, accept them thankfully and avoid getting defensive or upset. Next time you talk dirty—whether with the same partner or someone new—make a conscious effort to implement that feedback for an even better experience.
7. Relax
The point of dirty talk is to have a fun sexual experience with your partner. If you try out dirty talk and you’re feeling overwhelmed, stressed out, or self-conscious to the point that you’re not having fun, take a break. You can try again later or even decide that dirty talk just isn’t for you.
That’s it for today’s post guys and gals! I hope you liked the read!
Goddess loves you all, I will be back tomorrow to kick-start the weekend,
xxxxxxx
