4 Virtual Sex tips by the Goddess + Girls Get Off!
Helloooooooooo and good afternoon lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to this fabulous Monday post courtesy of your Goddess, today I will be sharing my 4 virtual sex tips that will get you guys all the knowledge needed in order to have the absolute best cyber sex out there - but before we get into it, I wanted to give a HUGE shoutout to Girls Get Off - the number one platform out there that gives you a giggle with their unhinged IG posts, and their products to give all of you lovely ladies out there ALL the pleasure behind closed doors!
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With no further ado, let’s get right into today’s post!
If you're having virtual sex for the first time, with a new partner, or for the first time with a new partner—as is the case for many who are meeting on dating apps such as Seeking—there's a good chance you, too, might be jonesing for some virtual sex tips to maximize pleasure and minimize awkwardness. Like, for starters, where do you even position the phone? And more pressingly, how can you feel connected to someone via a screen, without physical touch?
To answer these questions I decided to give you guys the 4 Goddess Virtual sex tips, to get your Monday up and running! :)))
1. Communicate your boundaries
If virtual sex is new to you, remember that you’re learning a new sexual skil. Even if you’re comfortable communicating your needs in person, you’re figuring out how to do so in a new scenario.
Chances are, virtual sex may feel a little foreign to your partner as well, so remember that you're figuring it out together. Ask each other questions like: What words turn you on? What do you want to see on camera? Setting these boundaries and sharing desires beforehand can make it easier to communicate when you’re hot and heavy. Also, have in mind that it's important to establish consent and communicate your boundaries before engaging in virtual sex, and to be clear that recording or taking screenshots requires consent. Establishing that trust beforehand will leave you more free to enjoy the experience.
2. Explore Mutual Fantasies
After you set the ground rules, one of my most effective virtual sex tips is to have each participant write down three fantasies, share them, and then have a sexy planning session for bringing those to life once it's safe to meet up in person.
And if you're not ready to share those desires, just expressing them to yourself can be helpful for actualizing what you want, which can minimize the awkwardness of virtual sex. Journaling about your fantasies can help you get in touch with your deepest desires—become your own erotic love letter author.
3. Set The Mood
Setting the mood and getting warmed up is just as important during video sex as it is for in-person sex. Hopping into a video chat and immediately getting busy might feel a little awkward. One way to make that shift is to share a sexy playlist with your partner before getting busy. Then, take them on a tour of your sensual space—describe how your candles smell, how soft your sheets are, etc.—to set the scene. You can also do an activity to set the mood, like watching a sexy movie together or having a virtual cook-off wearing your underwear.
4. Use Props
If you're someone who is like "but what do I do with my hands?" I think that a sex toy is great during virtual sex because it provides both the sensations you're experiencing solo, and a prop. And look no further than MISSY!
Once you have your toy, have your partner instruct you on how to use your pleasure product, or tell them step by step how you like to play with it. Plus this way, there's always something to reference if you need something to say or do.
Last but not least, you need to make sure that your phone is propped up on something sturdy, like against a book or two on your nightstand or an open laptop. Otherwise, it's more likely to get knocked over, showing your partner a super-sexy view of the piles of laundry you haven't put away, or a black screen.
And there you have it boys and girls, that is all that I have in store for this lovely Monday in the company of your one and only!
Be sure to check out Girls Get Off boys and girls, you will love their cheeky and nice website and I am absolutely certain that Missy will prove to be your number one toy to go to, no matter the occasion! :))))
Have a great week ahead, catch you all tomorrow,
xoxoxoox
