Hellooooooooo lovely readers of the Goddess Blog and welcome to another day and another beautiful post by your favorite Goddess, today I will be delving into the wonderful world of tantric sex - I will be sharing 3 tips that if utilized correctly, can make your partner orgasm like crazy!
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Tantric sexuality is the method of infusing energy into every sensual interaction to connect your hearts, spirits and bodies to an energy greater than yourselves.
Tantric sex is a slow, meditative form of sex where the end goal is not orgasm but enjoying the sexual journey and sensations of the body.
Thus, it is a deeply spiritual and highly erotic way of sharing love with another person.
This sensual style of lovemaking is not about sexual gymnastics and long-enduring orgasmic experiences; instead, it is about creating the greatest level of emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacy with someone that you love and adore profoundly.
These three ways can help you integrate a tantric sex into your relationship, Goddess guarantee!
1. Open your heart energies that create higher levels of eroticism.
The most important aspect of tantric experiences is the conscious act of opening the heart center. This is why tantric lovemaking should be made with whom you have developed deep love, commitment and trust, for your open heart has to be entrusted to someone that will care-take it well, and vice versa.
If you take time to open the heart center as a prelude to lovemaking, you will find a greater level of sexual pleasure, because when the heart center is open, your ability to perceive the subtle nuances of erotic stimulation increases ten-fold.
Also, this connectivity and level of oneness allows you to feel and experience your partner's pleasure as well as your own. This is the true essence of oneness and tantric love-making
If you are not experiencing that level of oneness, one has to consider the factors that may be contributing to a more limited experience of each other, such as lifestyle differences, energetic differences (perhaps one partner is low energy and the other is high energy), depth of emotional commitment and love, and spiritual compatibility.
2. Add the qigong method of deepening your flow of breath when touching and kissing.
Step 1: Inhale into your lower abdomen and allow it to fill like a balloon, then fill through the lungs.
Step 2: Exhale by contracting the lower abdomen to fully expel the breath slowly.
Step 3: When you slow and deepen your breath mindfully, oxytocin, the brain chemical that is associated with feeling in love, increases. This heightens your awareness of the energy of your emotions, physical energy, and spirit, and also creates a deeper bond with your partner (oxytocin is also known as the bonding chemical). Thus, mindful breathwork heightens your awareness of the nuances of touch, feeling, and connectivity with your partner.
When men engage this style of breathwork, they will be able to maintain erections longer, and achieve what is known as the dry orgasm, where the pleasure of orgasmic release occurs without ejaculation. Women will find that this style of breathwork will encourage multiple orgasms and a greater opening of the heart center to feel more rooted emotionally with a partner.
3. Use a tantric touch to enhance the bond between you and your partner.
The way you touch your partner can enhance emotional and spiritual bonding through sexuality. Tantric touches naturally are highly sensuous and start with you first becoming aware of the energy of your own hands, centering yourself, and breathing deeply.
From there, form the intention to share your deepest essential energy with your partner with each stroke or caress. Think of it as sharing the gift of your inner self and receiving that gift in return when your partner touches you.
With this intentionality of mindful sharing and receiving deep energy through touches, you will find that your touches will slow and soften. You will find that your hands will naturally be curious and will seek to discover in new ways, new aspects of your partner's body and heart. Your hands will also communicate your feelings and reveal your heart.
To boost and enhance the energy shared by your hands, you can also use tantric essential oil blends.
With mindful and relaxed touches focusing on sharing energy, you will find that the level of eroticism will increase greatly and naturally lead you to feel a greater sense of a body, mind, and spirit connection with your love.
Now to the fun part: 3 tantric sex positions that you absolutely must try! :))
1. Lotus (also known as Yab Yum)
This is considered The Tantric Position and will probably be in every brochure made about tantric sex. The penetrating partner is to sit cross-legged while the receiving partner straddles the partner while facing them. They then wrap their legs around their partner's lower back. You should use practices like breathe work and eye gazing.
2. The Great Bee
Girls, this is similar to cowgirl, but instead of just sitting on your partner you actually bring your legs up like you were doing a deep squat.
Then instead of thrusting up and down, try tilting side to side back and forth and using circular motions.
3. The Relaxed Arch
Have your partner sit upright on the bed with their legs straight. Sit on your knees on your partner’s lap, then begin to arch your back slowly. Rest your head between your partner’s legs and grab hold of their ankles or feet.
And theeere you have it boys and girls - a nice intro into the world of tantric sex!
I hope you guys enjoyed the read! Have a wonderful Wednesday ahead,
Goddess loves you all, catch you all tomorrow
xxoo