3 reasons why you should moan more during sex
Good morning lovely reading souls of the Goddess blog and welcome to another day and another Goddess post by yours truly, today I will be sharing 3 reasons why I believe that EVERYONE should moan more while having sex! We all know how sexy moaning can be - I know it turns out the hell out of me - so I decided to give a quick rundown on the three reasons as to why I believe you should all increase the moaning level while having sex! So without any further ado, enjoy the read and as always, remember to get this Goddess some nice cups of coffee! :)
Has this ever happened to you? You’re having passionate sex, and you sense that a pleasure-filled moan is about to escape your lips. Only, you stop it because you don’t want to wake the neighbors or bother your roommate...
I know I’ve done it. I’ve felt embarrassed or worried about what someone else might think. I didn’t want to be ‘too loud.’ Until I had a very loud orgasm in nature. When I was having sex under the stars, I didn’t worry about roommates or neighbors, and I let my moans shake the trees. It was a powerful experience, and I will not silence my moans anymore.
In fact, we should all moan more. It’s natural and can lead to better sex. Making sounds, chanting, singing, moaning or any sort of vocal expression has a powerful effect on our body and well-being.
First, let’s look at what moaning is so you can understand it better. Moaning is a verbal response that happens because of:
Deep pleasure and satisfaction;
Pain or discomfort;
Getting into our bodies.
It’s important to listen to your body. Have you ever moaned when you taste a really good strawberry or take a sip of delicious coffee? These are the same types of responses our body gives when we are having sex — something good is happening.
Or if you have ever slammed your fingers in the door, you know it’s natural to let out a yell and a painful moan. This is also our body’s way of verbally expressing itself — something unpleasant is happening.
So, moaning is a natural expression of the body. We should celebrate our pleasure and allow our pain to be expressed through sound. This is the natural process of the body. Why would we want to stop it?
Here are 3 reasons why you should moan while having sex.
#1: To communicate with your partner
When you stay silent during sex, it’s more difficult for your lover to understand your needs and wants. Moaning is a form of clear communication. It’s a way to signal satisfaction and deep enjoyment and clue them in when something doesn’t feel right. This is extremely helpful to let your partner know what is working and what isn’t.
Moaning should not be a performance. We are not trying to moan like a porn star — unless that turns you on. It should be natural. It is natural.
Use moaning to get into your body and allow your pleasure to speak for itself. If moaning is hard for you, think about allowing your breath to be more exaggerated instead. This will help you authentically communicate with your partner. If something feels really good, allow a moan to escape your lips.
Communication goes both ways. Listen to your partner’s breath and moans. Pay attention to when they moan in pleasure and what you’re doing at that moment. Make a mental note. This is a way to tell each other; I like this, I don’t like this––without having to actually say it. Your sex life will improve greatly as you both learn each other’s preferences better.
Don’t forget, however, that moaning isn’t just for partnered sex. It’s for your self-pleasure too. Moan alone when you masturbate. You can learn a lot about your own satisfaction this way.
#2: To relax your body
Did you know the pelvic floor and vocal cords share a connection? When you moan, you relax the pelvic floor. This is great because the pelvic floor is partly responsible for the female orgasm. A relaxed pelvic floor makes it easier for women to orgasm.
When you moan, you also relax and tone your vagus nerve. The vagus nerve is the longest cranial nerve in our body, running from the base of our skull through our vocal cords and the torso. It’s an integral part of our parasympathetic nervous system, which is responsible for feeling calm and relaxed in both men and women. Toning this nerve with sound or vibration such as moaning causes relaxation. And relaxed bodies are much more likely to reach heightened states of bliss and orgasm.
#3: To have a deeper orgasm
A relaxed body can heighten your sensations and allow you to reach fuller states of sexual bliss. Breath is the easiest way to get into your body, and every breath is an opportunity to moan.
Slow your breathing down during sex and bring heightened awareness to the pleasure cycling through the entire body. When you feel an orgasm building, don’t hold your breath. Take a deep and conscious breath. Then, let it out with a moan. Think about spreading the orgasmic energy away from the genitals and into the whole body. Use the vibrations of the moan to move the sexual energy through the body.
Continue to practice this deep moaning and spreading the orgasmic energy. You will eventually have a full-body orgasm. It will explode from every cell of your body, every hair on your head. Really, it’s that good.
Use these deep breaths to engage your pleasure-filled moans and vibrate your whole body.
When we allow our moans to transport us away, we can really tap into our bodies and have much better sex. Our breath and moans can communicate so much to our partners without us having to say anything. We can use the vibrations of our vocal cords to relax our whole bodies, making it easier for us to orgasm. Finally, you can use every breath as an opportunity to moan and spread our orgasmic pleasure to every cell in our body.
So what are you waiting for? Discover your sexual voice and release it. Forget the neighbors or the roommates. Don’t worry about getting a knock on the door. There is no shame in feeling fantastic in your body.
That is it for my moan-induced post for the day! Hope you really liked the read! And I really hope that next time you start pounding your partner, you will be as loud as humanly possible! :))))
Goddess will be back tomorrow, take care lovely readers,
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